After giving birth to the second child, the relationship between husband and wife deteriorated. What happened? How to maintain a relationship?

This is because after giving birth, the focus of your life will change, and each other will become very busy, ignoring the feelings of husband and wife. In order to maintain your relationship, you should change some of your behaviors.

In life, many couples have a good relationship before giving birth to children. Their lives are very sweet and they often go out on dates. However, after giving birth to their children, this relationship has undergone earth-shaking changes. The reasons for this change are as follows:

After giving birth to the second child, the couple are busy taking care of the children, and there is not much time for sweet talk, which will lead to sudden changes in feelings.

After having children, some people's lives become overwhelmed, let alone those who have a second child. After having children, they have to change diapers and feed their children. Some children are difficult to raise. They often cry in the middle of the night and often get sick. In the face of such children, how can adults be idle and sweet-talk and do romantic things? A complete sleep time is a luxury for them, and some couples will blame each other and pass the buck when crying. This situation can easily lead to changes in the feelings of husband and wife.

The couple put all their energy into their children, and they neglected emotional management.

In the face of the birth of a new life, most couples will put all their energy into this child. When they didn't have children before, the two of them might hold each other and watch TV after work. When they have children, they will take them home. This change in the mode of getting along will also make the relationship between husband and wife cold.

Ways to keep your mood:

1, communicate more. Communicate more when you encounter problems, and don't blame each other.

2. Understand each other. After having children, we should understand each other's difficulties more and don't get angry because of some problems.

3. Spend some time alone occasionally. It is also necessary to create romance occasionally, so as to enhance feelings. For example, children can be left with the elderly on weekends, and two people can go out to watch a movie and have a date.