How terrible is a reasonable person? What mentality do men like to preach to you?

Whether in love or marriage, girls hope to meet a gentle and considerate boy who is good to them. Although it is inevitable that two people will often have quarrels and contradictions together, at this time, girls hope that the other half can tolerate themselves, instead of reasoning with themselves in a condescending manner and teaching them. Reasonable people are really terrible. If a girl's personality is not docile enough, meeting such a man will only discourage her from continuing to associate with him.

1, he doesn't love you enough.

Those men who like to preach to you and always preach to you, ostensibly in the name of caring about you, say that he will do this to you because he cares about you, but actually they don't really love you at all. Because the man who really loves you will be patient and gentle with you, willing to tolerate you, and afraid of saying the wrong thing to hurt you.

He is very self-centered.

In life, men who like to preach to the other half at every turn tend to live a more self-centered life. There is a kind of male chauvinism in this kind of person. Whenever he thinks he is right, as long as girls don't obey their wishes, he will feel uncomfortable and want to preach to girls.

He has a strong desire for control.

Men who like to reason with girls and preach to them with long speeches are also very controlling. In fact, it is not happy for a girl to fall in love with such a man, because what he needs is not a girlfriend who really loves him, but a puppet tool person who listens to him and can be manipulated by him.

He is hypocritical.

In reality, many reasonable men are actually hypocritical. Although he always pretends to care about you and teach you how to be a man, in fact, they just talk about a lot of big things and can't do it at all. I have to say, this kind of man should not be too double standard. There is no need for a woman to be gentle with such a hypocritical man.