How to deal with a rogue and grumpy husband (what to do if you meet a grumpy husband)

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In marriage, none of us can guarantee that we will meet a gentle and cultured man in the future.

Many men are insecure when they are young, and their childhood shadows make them lack personality when they grow up, and they are always sensitive and suspicious.

This kind of man seems to have a good temper and a bad temper, but he can't stop being loved. The average girl will not give up on her own initiative. For a woman, loving someone is to help her become better.

Therefore, many men are not the image of looking at their appearance in our imagination. Some people seem to be careless, but they are extremely subtle about their lovers. Some men are stingy outside, but generous to the people they like.

It can also be said that it is a typical double standard that everyone thinks. This kind of double-marked person, in fact, has a double temper. What should I do if I meet a man with a bad temper in my life?

Today, let's talk about the way husband and wife get along: when they meet a bad-tempered husband, women can do this to make him obey.

Yuan Yuan and her husband have been married for three years, and men have countless tempers during their love. Unexpectedly, great changes have taken place after marriage. Yuanyuan, who just got married, was numb by the enthusiasm of the wedding at first, and didn't feel anything special.

However, in the year after marriage, she really realized what it means to lose her temper easily. A man in his twenties came home, childish as hell.

But when I met my husband before, I didn't do it at all. He seems to be polite and amiable to everyone. Even with people I don't like, I can talk and laugh, but when I get home, I release my nature.

I used to love my girlfriend very much, but now I start complaining as soon as I get home, but because I just got married, this is not often the case. Many times, men just lose their temper alone.

Simply put, men can't control their emotions, so they don't want to talk to their wives when they are angry. Maybe her husband is also afraid that he will hurt the person he loves most.

Married life, nature is two people * * * business, indispensable daily necessities in life, Yuanyuan feels that a man always loses his temper in the face of the closest person, which is really unacceptable.

If so, who should coax the girls into being unreasonable?

I can think about it. My man can't change for a while. How can I solve the contradiction between two people and prevent that man from coming home with such a bad temper every day?

Yuanyuan came up with her own method, that is, when a man loses his temper, let him do it first, ignore his man, and then take the initiative to discuss it with the man seriously after his temper disappears.

She doesn't want her husband to go home with negative energy every day, acting as if he has met something unhappy, and home is not his safe haven.

Later, two people quarreled, Yuanyuan didn't say a word, and went back to the bedroom to do his own thing. Under normal circumstances, after a period of calm, the husband will take the initiative to realize his mistake and go back to the room for a heart-to-heart talk.

At this time, Yuanyuan sat down calmly and told him what happened and how to deal with it.

Let the husband know how to be patient, but also know how to control his emotions, and don't let his temper become his master. Similarly, she expressed her needs as a woman.

Yuanyuan said that only girls like to make trouble without reason. Although the big man is naive, the occasional childishness will make people look cute, and the long-term childishness will only make women feel that this man is unreliable.

If a man is not ready to fall in love, don't step into marriage easily. After entering the marriage, you should also pay certain responsibilities and assume corresponding obligations for your wife.

She told her husband that, as a woman, she also wanted her husband's concern very much. As a man, she can't protect herself, so after marriage, the woman is in a bad mood, and it is inevitable that the two will fall into the abyss and quarrel in the future.

Because making an irrational decision on impulse is the most ignorant regret in life, instead of wasting time and energy on these unimportant things, it is better not to get married at the beginning.

If you want to run a good marriage, men should control themselves, and women should learn to cater to men's temper, correct him bit by bit, and let him change, otherwise this marriage will be difficult to last.

I saw some readers mention her husband. Because she is also a face-saving person, she can't stand it every time her husband comes home and loses his temper.

I confronted my husband directly, and as a result, my family was all over the place, and I soon got divorced.

He said that it is completely unnecessary to think carefully now, because two people still have many * * * topics and * * * languages, and they are willing to love each other.

As a result, I easily missed a sincere love because I didn't handle my temper and control my emotions. In retrospect, it is a pity. Women always forget that men have emotions in their lives.

They also grew up in the hands of their parents and experienced this society with us. We have no reason to ask men to bear more than we do, but as men, we should learn to grow ourselves.

If you meet a good wife like Yuanyuan who is willing to accompany you to correct, if you don't meet such a good wife, it will only make your life more and more difficult.

Therefore, men must understand their significance in marriage, what should they do when entering marriage, and what habits should they get rid of?

Xiao Geng said: Many men don't know what marriage really means, so they easily enter marriage and still keep their original bad habits.

I think there will always be someone who is as tolerant and understanding as his parents, but the result is completely different. People from this family have different education, views and behaviors.

No one wants to grow up with you all the time Men must have a clear position for themselves.

Roland once said: "You don't have to be reluctant to part, but you are responsible for your marriage."

If you are in love, there is no need to waste too much time on you. Just change to the next one.

But marriage is different. Since both of them have survived everything before entering marriage, don't turn marriage into the grave of love.

Cherish the time you have now. Love is running in with each other and finding the best way for two people to get along. This is marriage.