How can you change a person's deep-rooted thoughts?

I think it is almost impossible to change a person's deep-rooted thoughts or habits.

It's like a deep-rooted towering tree. People take root in this place, and their roots go deep underground. Suddenly one day, if you want to move a place for others, it will take a lot of engineering, and moving to other places may not be able to keep alive.

Take old people's superstition as an example. My grandmother is very superstitious. At night, the sound of the wind "whirring" is a little strange. She can tell me that ghosts are killing me. Children should not go out at night, or they will be taken away ... I believed it foolishly when I was a child!

When she grows up, every time she tells me this, I will refute it. By the way, I will give her ideological work and tell her that there are no ghosts and gods in this world. There is no Buddha or Goddess Guanyin living in the sky, and there is no land Lord underground.

but I've said it a hundred times, and she won't believe me anyway.

You can't change this feudal superstition anyway, just like a person's belief! People have believed in things all their lives, and suddenly one day, you tell them not to believe. Do you think they can accept it?

not only will people not believe you, they will not change, but they will also think that you are not sensible! I think you are sick ...

Every time I tell my grandmother about this, she leads me astray! I told her atheism, and she insisted on making me believe that there must be a god in the world.

oh, my god! I don't even want to talk to her about it now. It's so stubborn! You can't change it. Other thoughts are the same. People's thoughts are a whole, that is, living beliefs. It is almost impossible for you to make people change.

There are habits. To change a person's habits, I think the possibility is not much easier than changing a person's mind. We don't talk about drug addicts, just about smokers!

There are "two heavy smokers" in our office, who often work beside me and suddenly run away. I used to look at their distant backs with a puzzled face ...

It took a long time to know that they were smokers and wanted to have a cigarette.

I haven't changed this habit since I met them for three or four years. I have been clamoring for quitting smoking and quitting smoking for three days, and I believe men's mouths. I might as well believe that there are ghosts in the world.

after shouting for less than half a day, they went to smoke again. I asked them if they wanted to quit smoking. They said they wouldn't smoke this bag, or it would be a waste to throw it away. That makes sense! There are a lot of reasons, but they just can't be changed!

and my husband, who used to like smoking, won't change anyway, and I don't know if he really can't change or won't change, but he just likes smoking anyway! That smell, I feel particularly smelly and uncomfortable, but he just thinks it is fragrant and comfortable to smoke ... < P > What can you do? Don't let him smoke, he found a chance to secretly smoke again!

So, don't try to change a person's deep-rooted thoughts or habits, which are basically unchangeable! Those thoughts and habits have been integrated into their bone marrow, and nothing can be changed unless they die!