The feeling of not being blessed makes me feel helpless.

If two people want to get married, it is not just a matter for two people, but a matter for two families. If problems are not resolved before marriage, they will gradually emerge after marriage, and then lead to conflicts between men and women. A relationship or marriage that is not favored or blessed will inevitably have a difficult road ahead, because, no matter what, your parents are your dearest and most beloved people.