When you can’t stand it anymore, you might as well read these five sentences

There is this sentence in the movie "Smell the Scent of a Woman":

When walking at the crossroads of life, I know which way is right, without exception, I will follow him Mom knows, but I never leave. Do you know why? Because it’s so damn hard!

On the way forward in life, you will definitely encounter the darkest moments, confusion, depression, bottomless despair, physical and mental exhaustion, and the feeling that you can’t hold on any longer.

Especially for people who are working hard to move up, there are often more such difficult moments. As the old saying goes, if you want to wear the crown, you must bear the weight. Many times, if you want more and have more, you will inevitably have to bear a little more.

If you feel very tired now and feel that you can’t endure it anymore or can’t hold on, I hope you will read this article today.

Although I cannot provide you with practical and effective advice, it should be able to help you find a healing movie or give you a little strength. After all, life still has to go on.

01

"Good Will Hunting"

The meaning of success does not lie in what you want to get, but in how far you have gone from the starting point of that struggle.

The reality is cruel. Many times, we have made great efforts and sacrifices, but in the end we still cannot get the results we want. This is very frustrating.

What I want to say is that it is wonderful to get good results after hard work, and it is also the "success" that we are happy to see, but if we don't get the effort we want, we can only Is it called "failure"?

No, regarding the definition of "success", I really like what Professor Thorne said in the movie "Good Will Hunting": The meaning of success is not what you get in the end, but how much you pay. , how far you have persisted on this road of hard work.

Many things in life have no results, or the desired results, but they are still worthy of our all-out effort, because the process is often the most beautiful.

Life is your own, not for others to see. Try to realize your own value and chase your dreams. No matter what the final result is, it is real success.

02

"When Happiness Knocks on the Door"

Don't let others tell you that you can't be talented, not even me. As long as you have a dream, defend it. Only those who can't do it themselves will tell you that you can't do it either.

This is a movie about dreams and hard work. "The Pursuit of Happiness" can definitely make you see a glimmer of light in the darkness.

A person’s potential is really huge, and the remote control to stimulate this potential lies within each of us.

Don’t give up on yourself at any time, even if your current situation is very bad, even if you have nothing now, don’t give up easily.

If you have a dream, work hard to chase it and protect it. This is the real warrior, because those mediocre people have already surrendered and will pull you into their ranks.

Many of the failures in this world are humiliating surrenders without a fight. In fact, as long as you pick up a weapon and use your full strength, you often have a good chance of winning.

03

"One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest"

You keep complaining about this place, but you don't have the courage to get out of here.

I have always believed that there are two types of tiredness, one is the tiredness of falling down, and the other is the tiredness of climbing up.

The reason why many people feel physically and mentally exhausted is because they can neither change their current bad situation nor accept their mediocre selves.

They hang around and complain all day long. In essence, they are helpless about their own mediocrity and lack the courage and ability to make changes. This kind of downward degeneration leads to no hope.

On the contrary, people who climb up often feel physically and mentally exhausted. After all, breaking the rules and having the courage to break through and change is a very difficult and challenging thing in itself.

But their tiredness is phased, and they can see hope, because as long as you can persist in working hard, you can reach a higher level, and the future will become easier and easier.

If you feel tired at the moment, you might as well ask yourself: Which one do I belong to?

04

"Weather Forecaster"

Did you know that the difficult thing to do and the thing that should be done are often the same thing. Nothing meaningful is easy.

?As I just said, there is a kind of tiredness which is the tiredness of climbing up. Walking up is naturally strenuous. The steeper the slope, the more strenuous it becomes. This is "something difficult to do."

So, since this thing is difficult to do, requires a lot of suffering, will cause blisters on the soles of our feet and is exhausted, why do we still do it?

The answer is: If we want to stand higher and see the scenery farther away, we will inevitably have to endure this pain. This is "what we should do."

Nothing meaningful is easy. If the hard thing and the thing that should be done are the same thing, then it is worthy of celebration and worthy of us gritting our teeth and persevering.

Persisting for something worth persevering is a beauty in itself.

05

"The Life of Pi"

Here we must talk about fear, which is the only real opponent of life, because only fear can defeat life.

When we encounter difficulties or setbacks, frustration or even fear will linger in our hearts. This is normal.

What I want to say is, you can be afraid, but you can’t disarm, you can cry, but you can’t surrender, because once you really give up, it’s really over.

Many times, difficulties are not as powerful and invincible as we imagine. As long as we can overcome our inner fears, be braver and more persistent, we can often handle them.

Romain Rolland once said: There is only one kind of heroism in the world, which is to still love life after seeing the truth of life clearly.

True warriors are often strong in their hearts. They are always fearless and can face the storms, lightning and thunder in life with a smile.

Only with such a strong heart can we go further in this fantastic journey of life.

Tomorrow is another beautiful day? Ah!

About the author: Uncle Ha is a young best-selling author. His 2019 new work "Breaking the Game - A Guide to Thinking and Action Beyond Your Peers" is now available on major e-commerce platforms. He is good at using history to deconstruct the workplace. His writing is down-to-earth, concise and incisive, and is deeply loved by contemporary young professionals.