Why are impatient people bad?

We all know that the clearer the water, the less fish there are. Why? Because it's visible, it's easy to catch. When we see it, we will try to catch it, so there are fewer and fewer fish. If the water is muddy, we don't know if there is any fish under it, so you don't want to catch it. We all know that even what you are good at may be difficult to do well if you have no patience. No matter what you do or talk, you should not be too impatient. The so-called impatience can't eat hot tofu. What's the use of your hurry?

Although this sentence is understood in this way, from another angle, isn't this the way of life? People need to be tactful and learn to adapt to different environments and different people in order to live and work hard in society; No matter whether the environment is good or not, clear environment can raise beautiful fish, but it is very dangerous. Why? Because you want to prevent others from catching you, because it is difficult for you to find a good hiding place;

People, often in a good environment and a good crowd, are not a very wise thing. Why? The surrounding environment is very good. When we see beautiful things, we are surrounded by good people, so we think the world is all good people. However, when we leave society, we find that this is not the case. There are dirty places and malicious people in the world, so many people who have just left society have little experience and are easy to be cheated. Because I haven't experienced it, I don't know that the world is sinister, so I gradually understand that society is so realistic and people's hearts are so unpredictable.

People should learn to live tactfully in different environments. Don't talk about the classics of sages every day, but contact different environments, different people and different environments, and different people should also master skills. We shouldn't believe everything in the world. As the ancients said, it is better to believe in books than to have no books. We need to keep our subjective meaning. This is the wisest way of life. When accepting different ideas and opinions, try to keep your own ideas above 5 1%. We can't assume that what others say is what you think. People are not saints, sometimes what others say may not be reasonable. Even the Analects of Confucius is not recognized by many people. What should I do?

Say the second sentence first. People are too impatient and unwise. This sentence echoes the previous sentence. No matter what kind of environment people are in and who they are facing, they should keep calm and never be impatient. For example, people say that good people in this world are hard to do, good people don't live long, and that this person does good things endlessly; Impatient people are often outspoken, and what they say is not only unconvincing, but also makes people feel guilty; Therefore, we say that such a person has no wisdom, because he can't speak, and everything a person with great wisdom says is only said after careful consideration in his mind;

First of all, he will judge whether what others say is reasonable, from what angle, whether he has encountered such a thing and so on. And will look at and analyze the problem from a very rational point of view, instead of directly refuting other people's views without thinking. You don't know what it is. Each of us has a different experience. At the same time, everyone has different ideas. Everyone knows what to say and draws different conclusions, so

This good man will not live long, and there is another sentence behind him! This is called the Millennium disaster! Many of us now take this sentence as being a good person is better than being a bad person. Not only will I not lose anything, maybe someone will remember me in a hundred or even a thousand years. Although what I did was not a good thing, at least it made me famous. I guess many people understand this, but in fact this understanding misinterprets the meaning of this sentence;

God said: when you do a good deed, you accumulate great goodness and virtue, and at the same time you are paying back your previous karma. When your karma is paid off, it is time for you to get rid of it.

Tell a short story

Legend has it that somewhere in the Song Dynasty, there was a boy whose parents died and he was physically disabled. He made a living by begging, but he was kind-hearted and often liked to help others. There is no bridge on the local fast-flowing river, which is very dangerous. Whenever the riverbed is flooded, it can't pass, which makes the local elders miserable. Seeing this scene, teenagers want to build a stone bridge, so they pick up stones every day, regardless of the ridicule of others. Over time, year after year, stones piled up into mountains. Everyone was deeply moved and began to build a stone bridge together. The boy was blinded by a stone chisel, and people lamented God's injustice. But the teenager didn't complain at all and still tried his best to help others. The bridge had just been built and everyone was celebrating when the boy was struck by lightning and died.

Hearing this, Bao Zheng was outraged and wrote "Better be good than evil" on the young man's arm. Soon, the Prince of Song was born, crying, and all the doctors couldn't cure him. So let Bao Zheng to find a way to, Bao Zheng saw the baby's skin as snow, tender little hand faint words, carefully distinguish, turned out to be his own words for teenagers, surprised, hurriedly wipe, handwriting disappeared instantly, the baby saw Bao Zheng no longer cry.

From then on, Bao Zheng understood the cause of youth by sleeping on the dream fairy pillow. It turns out that young people do evil on earth, and the crime is very big. It takes three generations to pay for their sins. God originally arranged for the first life to leave a disability alone, the second one was blind but survived, and the third one was struck by lightning and suddenly died in the wilderness.

The child was born poor and disabled for the first time, but he repented and just wanted to do good for others. So, God made him pay back the career of two generations and made him blind. But children don't complain, just silently do good things for others. God accepted the karma of his third life and gave life for life, so he was struck by lightning. Finally, the suffering of the third world will be repaid in the first world, and he will be arranged to support the emperor in the afterlife, with infinite wealth. Through this incident, Bao Zheng is also enlightened, and we can't just look at the surface. Karma is not bad.

Life is alive, who can transcend this karma? But fate can be chosen. If you choose it right, you can change it naturally. Cash is obvious, depending on the cause.

Let's talk about "the evil of thousands of years still exists", which means that if this person does an evil thing, it will take you thousands of years to repay the debt, and the more evil things are done, the greater the debt created over thousands of years may not be repaid. Qin Gui is the most typical case, even today, it is still unable to repay the debt it created at the beginning;

People are too impatient and unwise. If he is really wise in SHEN WOO, then he would never make such a big mistake and let Yue Fei, who is loyal to his country, be falsely harmed. He only sees the immediate interests, but ignores the truth that "you can't just look at the surface, and what goes around comes around comes around".

In life, you need to think deeply about treating people and things. And you can't jump to conclusions; I think Bao Zheng was influenced by the vivid remarks when he was heard, and suddenly forgot the most basic truth of causal cycle;

Therefore, it is most important to keep the subjective judgment above 5 1%. Why does society develop? It is because we constantly break those unrealistic ideas that culture can continue and society can develop.

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