Tell me about the fate of the post-70s.

Life is full of risks, and no one knows what will happen tomorrow and who will come first.

Throughout a person's life, the most dangerous period is actually not youth or old age, but middle age, which we are all familiar with.

When people reach middle age, everything will be over. All the pressures and contradictions will come to us. They are like Mount Tai, enough to make people breathless.

Some middle-aged people have serious hair loss, are in a trance, and even have no enthusiasm for work. Why is this happening?

This is what we often call the "middle-aged contradiction". In the most difficult time of life, people's energy and enthusiasm have declined, and they don't know what to fight for, and they don't know if there is hope in the future.

It has been said that every middle-aged person in time is like being on a mountainside. It's too difficult to climb up, but he won't climb down. Therefore, they are in a dilemma.

In today's society, the person with the greatest "middle-aged stress" should be the post-70s we are familiar with. Today, at 202 1, some of them are already born after 70.

You know, from the age of 50, the most dangerous time in life will start after 70.

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50 years old is a hurdle for middle-aged people.

From a medical point of view, when people reach the age of 45, all the functions of the body will decline, and even more and more problems will appear.

From the psychological point of view, today's society is becoming more and more complicated, and the probability of middle-aged people suffering from depression is getting higher and higher. In this case, their psychology may become negative.

Judging from the trend of life, 50 years old is the end of the first half of life and the beginning of the second half. It is like a hill, blocking people's progress.

This hurdle seems to be closely related to our daily life, but in many cases, it is really fatal.

Some time ago, readers felt backstage. He said that his three 49-year-old classmates died one after another within one month. After hearing the news, he felt particularly scared.

These three students are actually in good health, and one of them is a fitness expert in the unit. However, in an instant, they suddenly passed away.

In fact, situations like this often happen. You know, in the ten years from 45 to 55, if you get along well physically and psychologically, then you can naturally enter the old age smoothly.

However, if this decade is not good or even goes wrong, then people may go downhill.

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Since the age of 50, the lifestyle has changed.

Before the age of 50, it is a way of life. After 50, it is a new lifestyle.

Some people still "trade their lives for money" after they reach the age of 50, and still maintain their previous lifestyle. After all, this kind of person is hard to last.

There is a truth that we should understand, after all, people are flesh and blood, tired, weak, and not robots. Therefore, you can't just overdraw your body and get hurt.

At first, a person could only work eight hours a day. However, you have adjusted your working hours to 12 hours or more, and even worked three or four jobs by yourself. Then how can your body hold up?

Some people lose their jobs as soon as they reach the age of 50, so they are particularly anxious, which not only causes psychological problems, but also makes their bodies in a sub-health state. Isn't this the helplessness of people and money?

For 70-year-old Wu Bin, the greatest value for the rest of his life is not how much money he earns, but whether he is physically and mentally healthy.

There is a saying that is very realistic. Some people have money to spend, which is just "people are in heaven and money is in the bank". Some people are satisfied, and naturally they can "enjoy knowing life" and enjoy peace.

To be a man, you must know how to change your life pattern, so that you can last for a long time.

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After 50, everyone needs to know the destiny.

Confucius once said: "forty is not confused, fifty knows the destiny, and sixty obeys."

During the 20-year middle age from 40 to 60, the realm of "knowing destiny" was caught in the middle. This is a process of connecting the preceding with the following.

Many people used to understand when they were 40 years old. But now most people don't understand until they are 50. In other words, "no confusion" and "knowing destiny" can be realized at the same time at the age of 50.

Many people will wonder, what is "knowing the destiny"?

The so-called "destiny", in the eyes of Confucius, is to follow the law. Everyone needs to follow the guidance of fate, and everyone needs to obey the rules of nature. On this basis, we can live well.

To put it bluntly, it is two o'clock. First of all, we should know how to accept the reality of life. There is no need to say anything too greedy. Just let nature take its course.

Secondly, we don't need to regret yesterday or worry about tomorrow. It is enough to live in the present and cherish all the people and things in front of you.

Mr. Feng Zikai once said:

Be worthy of heaven, land, people and ghosts. So, life.

Don't be confused, don't be trapped in love, don't be afraid of the future, and don't miss the past. So ... It's good.

Perhaps, as long as you live according to your own heart, it is enough.

Text/There are deer in Shushan