I used to be so close to my parents, but now I'm tired of meeting them. What should I do?

Parents get along with their children. As children, we should first distinguish right from wrong, but don't care about right and wrong. After all, they are elders. Older people are inevitably stubborn, and some ideas will be bound by their own experiences and social environment. If you just blindly resist or even resist, the situation will get worse and worse.

But you have to understand, first of all, this is the limitation of their generation. Many people do, and they don't understand what young people think. Second, they actually mean well. I hope you have a better life in the future.

If you want to wear these, you don't have to fight with them, and you don't have to feel sad. The most important thing is how to manage yourself and these things.

On the one hand, if you learn to control your time and realize that you are lazy, try to change a little. You don't have to hold the beam, but at least do it. When you want to study, you can calm down and study with peace of mind. This is a very important emotional intelligence. In reality, many people find it difficult to succeed, not because they don't want to work hard, but because they want to work hard but can't afford it. Therefore, the earlier this ability is cultivated, the better.

On the other hand, what should I do if I meet a strong and stubborn elder? Try to coax them. In the later life, I will come into contact with all kinds of people, arrogant old version, narrow-minded colleagues, and so on. If you just feel sad and don't know how to deal with it, there will be a lot of sadness in the future.

Finally, in fact, many parents do. They only love us in the way they think is right. Although they did not enjoy it when they joined us, it was their kindness, but they didn't know how to love. Try not to hate your parents, understand their shortcomings and strive to grow up. They will still be happy for you when they see that you can live as happily as they expect.