Mom always complains to you about dad, what should I do?

My mother always complains about my father, so I suggest you do this:

First, when my mother complains about my father, you should listen as much as possible and not express your opinions. Don't say that mom is wrong, because if you criticize mom, she will feel helpless, disappointed and sad. Try not to criticize Dad from her standpoint, because it will make mom feel that her complaint is right and deepen her opinions and complaints about Dad.

second, when mom complains about dad, put in a good word for dad and tell mom about dad's advantages. For example, how dad praises his mother in front of himself, how he thinks about his mother, how he cares about his mother, how he contributes to his family, and what his mother doesn't know.

Third, pay attention to whether mom's complaint is true. If it is true, talk to dad again and ask him to pay attention to mom's feelings. But don't be too straightforward, pay attention to methods and strategies and language rhetoric, because if you don't handle it properly, it will have the opposite effect.