Who can tell what Nietzsche meant when he said that "love and pity are evil"?

This is a disguised form of selfishness, so he said that love is evil; However, when a person pities others, he wants to get the respect and gratitude of the pitied. If the poor person scolds him instead of thanking him, then his pity for that person will be gone. Therefore, Nietzsche believes that compassion for others is to get a kind of self-psychological satisfaction, a kind of self-affirmation with good thoughts. This is also a disguised form of selfishness, so Nietzsche thinks that pity is also an evil.

I saw it many years ago, but my memory may not be accurate.

Bing Xin wrote an article around this sentence, but I feel that she misunderstood this sentence.

My understanding is: quoting a passage also shows my understanding of "compassion is evil" (Latin "sympathy (* * *-suffering)", which means that we can't see others suffering and be indifferent; Or we should comfort those who suffer. Another similar word is "pity" (French, pitiez Italian, etc. ), which means an attitude towards suffering. "Poor woman" means that we are superior to her, so we should lower our status and bow to her. This is why the word "sympathy (* * *-suffering)" always arouses suspicion.

Personally, I feel that Nietzsche's saying that "love and pity are both evil" is understood from their motives, or from their causes. This is why Nietzsche said that "love" is also evil.