What should I do in the face of my husband who has not worked for a long time?

If your husband really doesn't go to work for a long time, you can ask him to even help him contact his old boss, old leader and old colleague and help him go back to work. This is the fastest way for a husband to return to the workplace. Of course, emotional construction and face-saving projects should be done well, otherwise he would be embarrassed to go back.

In fact, the bridge where my husband doesn't go to work also appeared in the marriage process of our senior Lucy. I went south to Shenzhen to look for the future in order to escape the blind date arranged by my family. Although many of her reasons for divorce are bullying in words and actions, there is another extremely important reason, that is, she has never been clear about her husband's job, that is, her ex-husband has only done short-term odd jobs intermittently for several years, and has not worked for a long time.

However, even so, it tells us a solution, so that the husband who doesn't go to work can do urban management first. Just try it. Although it is not a formal preparation but a temporary job, it is still easy to get in touch with people. Although this job is not a good job within the system, it is at least a semi-system, with more face, just suitable for men who don't go to work with good face.

Of course, it is a good idea to ask relatives and friends to introduce jobs, especially the relationship between in-laws and in-laws, which makes it easier for her husband to re-employment.

There is also a way to urge her husband to go to work, that is, to use provocation. At this time, it doesn't matter whether the work is good or bad or whether the salary is high or low. At least I have a job first, and I don't want to go to work because there are no other adults or familiar people to pressure him except you.

You can contact your husband's best friends, brothers, friends, cousins, especially classmates. Your husband is the most beautiful face in front of these male acquaintances of the same age. Good face is good. You invite these people to visit one by one, even together. I don't need to mention it at all. Each of them will ask your husband how his work is going recently.

If more students ask, he may really start looking for a job seriously or even go to work soon for the sake of saving face and answering work questions in the future.

Of course, even with children, even if the baby goes to school, there will still be husbands who don't go to work. The former consultant of the real estate agent above, the child will not go to work after school starts. The excuses are all the same, starting a business, short videos or live broadcasts.

Here tell us two things: first, if the husband promises after marriage, it is easy to just talk about it, but it is much better before marriage, at least pay attention to your words; Secondly, part of the reason why husbands don't go to work is to take care of the family, that is, to take care of the children, especially when they don't live with their parents. Taking care of the baby is a good reason for men not to go to work.

Let's take another example of not going to work.

This is a programmer who is going to program at home, saying that writing a good program can still fetch a good price, and he can find a venture capital company to invest in his program.

This is nonsense, lie to yourself, what program can you make up to sell and create a company? * * * Enjoy the APP, or the autopilot program, or the artificial intelligence or numerical control program? You can't fool ghosts. You can only fool a non-science wife.

Therefore, the "friends" of the above group friends are husbands.

I saw one in Suzhou the day before yesterday