What about the mood? The harm of derailment to children?

The harm of derailment to children? One party's cheating divorce agreement is also a kind of change of direction abuse to the betrayed party and children. Because the derailed party has to experience emotional collapse, broken trust and insanity, the sentence of derailment will produce a lot of negative emotions. Generally, the first few days of a breakup are the hardest, and then it spreads to children. This is the same as all negative effects of emotional abuse.

girl student

Will be extremely insecure in the case of falling in love, once you can't find each other, you will even be unable to call your soul well, and one party will be sensitive and suspicious about how to write a divorce agreement. This sensitivity and sensitivity is also because I saw my parents' rebellion with my own eyes and worried that I would suffer the same pain. In other words, girls who see their parents cheating with their own eyes will worry that they will become the victims of cheating.

boy

Even if you hate this kind of personal behavior very much, you will make mistakes again and again inadvertently. This is called reactionformation, that is, the development trend of such children is not to better themselves, but to force their thinking to imitate the behavior of ordinary parents. The sentence of cheating is about mood, regardless of whether this personal behavior is appropriate or not.

Everyone will see violent and unruly fathers give birth to children who love fighting, parents who naturally cheat, and children who love cheating in marriage. From this point of view, cheating can also be "inherited", but it is just unintentional imitation according to acquired nature. Generally speaking, the most difficult thing a few days before breaking up is that whether a child can get a happy job in marriage depends on the parents' own dribs and drabs in marriage. In my opinion, no one expects a child to become a person who is afraid of marriage feelings and lacks a sense of mission because of his evil impulse and can't control it automatically.