When people are old, what is the biggest reliance?

Rely on people, people run;

By water, water flow;

Backing the mountain, the mountain falls;

Depend on yourself and be firm!

On your own! More than ten years ago, my mother-in-law told her father-in-law that I was counting on my children when I was old! A few years later, she and her father-in-law divorced. They were almost 70 years old at that time. I don't approve of their divorce. I have stumbled for most of my life. I see that I am old, so I will make do with it. But my mother-in-law insisted on leaving, and my husband thought I was meddling, so I left. Now my mother-in-law lives with her daughter. I hear it's not satisfactory. The children's home is not their parents' home. I guess their parents are too disappointed.

This question depends on the age of the old people!

Now 60 years old, stepping into old age. We should talk by age!

In the decade from 60 to 70, if there is no basic disease, this age group can be said to be young and strong. In this decade, parents can be taken care of and children can be helped. This decade's old man, who also don't have to rely on, who can take care of who do it!

When people are over 70 years old, they have no major basic diseases, and they can rely on themselves when they can take care of themselves!

After people reach the age of 80, most old people depend on their children. Even if you send it to a nursing home, you have to rely on children!

After people reach the age of 90, many old people can't live without people. At this time, the elderly, like babies, need someone to take care of them 24 hours a day. The biggest dependence of this age group is children!

Few people live to be a hundred years old.

When people are old, what is the biggest reliance?

1, the biggest reliance is social endowment insurance and medical insurance!

As long as the elderly have these two insurances, there is not much practical difficulty in providing for the elderly. I have money in my hand and medical insurance. These two insurances are the biggest reliance for people when they are old!

2, the biggest dependence is your own house!

When can the elderly keep their homes? It's really hard to live under the fence!

3, the biggest dependence is your old foundation!

Old people should spend money when they are old. It doesn't matter who the old people spend their money on, spend the old money!

4, the biggest dependence is your wife!

Young couples come and go, and the wife is the spiritual pillar of the elderly. The old couple depend on their wives!

5, the biggest dependence is your child!

I think raising children to prevent old age will always exist. Whenever society progresses and develops, we should raise children to prevent old age!

I'm grandma Liu Chunyun: I think our generation of old people are very happy. I have my own pension and medical insurance. I have a nest and children. Harmonious and stable living environment, very suitable for old-age care!

Grateful to live in the new era of Socialism with Chinese characteristics!

Thanksgiving motherland, thanksgiving peacetime!

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When people are old, the biggest reliance is to examine what valuable things they have brought to this society. The greater the value you bring to this society, the greater your dependence and the stronger your satisfaction. Secondly, it is your children and grandchildren. The better your children and grandchildren, the greater your dependence and satisfaction. Secondly, it is the money and status you have. Although money and status can also satisfy you, you have to make sure that their origins are innocent, otherwise, you will not feel at ease. Third, even if you have nothing, you will feel at ease if you have a clear conscience and live honestly. It doesn't matter how you spend the rest of your life. A porridge and a meal, just keep your dignity.

When people are old, what is the biggest reliance?

A: Birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws, and no one can escape.

The subject asked: "What is the greatest reliance of people when they are old?" In my opinion, when people are old, there are three kinds of biggest dependence; One is health, the other is money, and the third is affection. Why do you say that?

The first is health. When people are old, as long as they have a healthy body, it is the greatest reliance. You are old, unhealthy, chronically ill or seriously ill, bedridden and unable to take care of yourself, which is irreplaceable by others and relatives. Only you have to endure pain, especially fatal diseases (such as malignant tumors), and it doesn't matter how much you spend, because your illness has been sentenced to death. The same is true of minor illnesses. During the treatment, I endured my own pain. Therefore, health is very important when people are old. There's nothing else to be disgusting about. Having a good body is the best support.

The second is to have money. Being old, having a certain deposit and a fixed pension is also a kind of dependence. Money talks. Old people can't take part in labor, so they are not afraid of being rich. If the children are not filial, they can use their own money to hire a nanny and go to a nursing home for the elderly. If you have money, you have confidence, if you have money, you can pretend to be courageous, and if you have money, you can do anything. So money is also a kind of dependence.

The third is affection. People are old, have no healthy body, no savings, no pension, and lose their ability to work, especially those born in rural areas, and rely on family ties to maintain them. There is no other way but to rely on children to provide for the elderly. Raising children and preventing old age is the virtue of the Chinese nation. It is the duty and responsibility of children to support the elderly. I raise you young and you raise me old. This is a natural cycle. Most of the rural elderly rely on their children and families to provide for the elderly, and they are also the only support for the rural elderly.

When people are old, who is the most reliable is the three methods mentioned above: health-money-affection.

Depend on the sky

Man's life is given by heaven. If he wants it back, he can't be stopped! What can hospitals do about diseases, accidents and cancer? What can everyone do? Suiyuan! Don't think so much when you are old. Live, live well. Nobody depends on you!

Money, houses, cars are useless, people are dying, these things can't stop, they are unreliable!

The organization can see you, give you subsidies and take you to the hospital!

Children will look after you, buy clothes and fruits for you! They can't save you!

I believe that all life has its own destiny!

If you are blessed, they were all trained in the last days, in good health, and they are not short of money, food and shelter! Children are filial! Children and grandchildren are full, and many children are blessed!

If unfortunate, disabled, mentally retarded, poor, widowed and lonely! Just follow orders and live well!

Nature depends on one's healthy body and mind. If you are physically and mentally unhealthy, you will either make trouble to attract attention, or married with children is in bed and can't have his own life. Even if my children and grandchildren are full, no one will willingly give up long-term companionship.

What do people rely on when they are old? Life goes on. There is no difference in the needs of young people for daily necessities, food, drinks and Lazarus, and their health is getting worse and worse. I wonder if the disease will come unexpectedly tomorrow. All this must be solved with money, and the ability to make money has dropped sharply. So there is no doubt that it is savings and pensions. No money, dignity and face? Respected, respected, unattainable, heartless, rootless, selfish, greedy, complacent, despicable and dirty side of human nature gradually emerges, what can be done? Therefore, we must also abide by the law and be honest.

The biggest dependence is to buy social security. After I bought out my seniority from 1998, the unit was unable to deduct social security from my salary, so I went to the social security bureau to pay it myself. At that time, it was more than 80 yuan per month. Later, more and more people paid, paying more than 400 a month the year before retirement. Medical insurance changed to 1500 yuan. If you don't pay the bank, you won't get your retirement salary. Nowadays, many farmers call it "paying public grain to build reservoirs and roads" and "three mentions and five systems" equal to the old-age insurance. Bullshit! If you don't pay social security, what will you take to support the elderly?

When you are old, you still have to rely on yourself. Don't point. Not reliable, and it's not good to point at their children. They have their own lives. It's unrealistic if you keep bothering them. Nowadays, young people can't point, not even their wives. Which one dies first? Are you right? So expect yourself to be the most reliable!

Pointing at yourself, the biggest problem is what to do with the last foot. It's easy to say you can take care of yourself. If you can't take care of yourself, the problem will come. Who will help you? How to manage the money, you must entrust someone, and you must find something reliable. Can I take out the money if I put it there? It looks good at ordinary times, but human nature may be distorted at critical moments. In reality, there are many such things. Before you died, the money was misappropriated. Some people say that you asked a lawyer to sign an agreement. Who will advocate the agreement for you when you die? It's all things. I have a friend who has encountered this problem now and can't find anyone reliable. What should I do if I fail?

What are we going to do? We haven't found a good way yet. We have been talking about it. In nursing homes, families without children are not acceptable. Finally, I told her, one day at a time, don't think so much, go wherever you go!