Very realistic perception of life, let's talk about ourselves.

1. Laugh and the whole world will laugh with you; Cry, you will cry alone.

2. It is selfish not to consider other people's feelings, and it is self-abuse to care too much about other people's feelings.

There are not so many people in the world who care about you. All efforts are still for myself, for the fun of doing what I like.

4. There are people working hard where you can't see them. As far as you can see, they seem to be fooling around like you and complaining like you. Only you believe these things are true. In the end, only you keep forging ahead.

You must decide your own affairs. This is your own life, not others'.

6. Some people say that time makes people forget the pain. I don't think time can only make people get used to pain.

7. Time is like a net, where you sow, you reap. Once the drama of life begins, no matter how stage fright you have, you must play it to the end.

8. If you can stick to what others can't, you can have what others can't.

9. We still need the generosity and abundance of life to love each other, even though the years are stingy and ridiculous.

10. Love yourself when you are alone, and love each other when you are alone.

1 1, time gradually took away the young and frivolous, and slowly precipitated the self-knowledge of the cold and warm.

12, life is really tired, depending on how you taste it; When you feel tired, it's not because there are too many bumps on the road, but because you forget where to go. On the road of life, it is inevitable to be bound by trivial feelings and often forget the direction.

13, bid farewell to mistakes and meet the right ability.

14, time may not prove many things, but it will definitely see through many things.

Winners are not those who never fail, but those who never give up. Don't give up as long as there is still a play; Because things won't really end unless you give up trying.

16, the reason why you are unhappy is that you can't stand the present state and have no ability to change it.

17, don't make a decision when you are angry, and don't make a promise when you are happy, because someone will take it seriously.

18, you are easily angered by other people's words, mostly because you are denying on the surface, but your subconscious is agreeing; Anger is actually another way of agreeing.

19, listening to songs and hearing tears is because the lyrics are just right for your story.

20. Do you feel tired in life? Reality will tell you that if you don't work hard, you will be trampled to death by life. People, at a certain age, live happily every day, but also have some troubles and unspeakable pain.

2 1, be a simple person, peaceful and persistent, modest and fearless.

22. If you really want to be with someone, listen to your heart, not the voices of people around you.

23. Time will only grow old, but it will never deceive us.

You can turn to your own hands when you need help. When you are old, you will find that your hands can solve many problems. One hand is used to help yourself, and the other hand is used to help others.

25. Who says we have no stories? We live in our own stories every day.

26. In our life, we always meet and lose all the way.

27. Your life will not let you down. Those wrong turns, those tears, those sweats all make you unique.

28. Always be full of hope for life and smile at difficulties and hardships.

It's realistic to feel the mood of life and talk about phrases.

1, it is good that people live a little confused. I don't want to know what others say about me behind my back. People's true thoughts will always stab you mercilessly. Don't be surprised. This is normal, not because you are bad, but because most people will magnify your shortcomings behind your back. Ideally, when we met, we had nothing to do with each other. We deceive ourselves and never change for unimportant people.

2, hate, you will never get happiness; Love can give you real inner peace. Money can solve the problem, but it will also bring as much trouble; With heart and love, you can be invincible!

No one likes loneliness, but loneliness will make people more practical than disappointment, follow one's inclinations, and alternating hot and cold. Sometimes we find ourselves vulnerable, and when others comfort us, we may burst into tears. Sometimes we find ourselves gritting our teeth and walking a long way. Loneliness is only a condition of being born, and you are far stronger than you think.

4, time is really good, verify the people's hearts, witness the human nature, understand the truth, understand the falsehood, there is no problem that cannot be solved, only the mentality that cannot be solved. There is no hard experience, only myself who can't get out. At first you were always worried about who you would lose, but you forgot to ask, who would be afraid of losing you? Life, hard work, cherish, have a clear conscience, so, very good.

5, the three most disgusting people: the first is to get too close to friends because you don't know how to respect yourself. The second is that I helped you but you stabbed me in the back because you are too white-eyed. The third is that I treat you as a friend but you don't treat me as a friend because you are too social and you are behind the scenes.

6. I will meet many people in my life: sometimes I just walk a part of the road together, and I won't give the rest of the journey to this person until I meet someone who really wants to spend my life together, and we will reach the end together. I've been here, loved and tried. It's luck, not life. Maybe the person who is willing to accompany you through hardships failed to accompany you to the end, but I have no regrets when I think of those years when I tried my best to love and hurt. Thanks to those who really accompanied me.

7, a person is good for pets, does not mean good for people; Being loyal to your brother does not mean that you will be single-minded to your lover; Filial piety does not mean being docile to your wife. Many times, one thing can only represent one thing, and people always like to fill their expectations of another person with too many associations.

8. Many people and colleagues are casual acquaintances, but they spend two-thirds of their time with them every day, and the most important relatives can only get together with them for a few festivals every year. People are never satisfied: people in life are often not in your heart, and people in your heart are often not in life.

9. Real maturity should be to know that not everyone is as good as you think, there is always a gap between the world and your imagination, and not all efforts can be rewarded. Learn to let go of fruitless feelings, love people who are more worthy of your love, and do things that are more worthy of your love.

10, a person should know his position, just like a person knows his face, which is the most sober consciousness. It is always better to wash away the lead, and it is important to do your best according to your ability.

165438+ If you meet too many people in your life, as long as you know it clearly, you will never have to please someone who doesn't understand you.

12, at a certain age, I began to learn that no one wants to please, and there is no need to cater to anything. I feel comfortable with anyone, including friends. When I am tired, I will stay away. If you like me and I like you, we will play together. We don't like it. Don't be together Life is already so hard. Why not let yourself live more smoothly?

13, too concerned about others, eager to be noticed by others, very tired. Getting used to being alone is a good thing. Then you find that there are fewer and fewer people you want to rely on and contact, and people become indifferent and calm, not so tired.

14. If you want to forget someone deliberately, it should be rude and invalid. In every part of our youth, there is a person. If you press the delete button forcibly, youth will have nothing. What everyone needs is not to escape or hide, but to be able to pick it up gently and put it down calmly.

15. One day, you will look back at the people and things you have experienced. No matter what happened then, it seems so much now. You may even feel that you were too picky and naive. There is nothing you can't get through, and there is no one you can't live without, but you must admit that it is precisely because of what happened that you became who you are now.

16, over the years, I have a good wish: I am good to everyone, and I hope everyone will be good to me. I just want a reputation, but I can't ruin it. I suddenly realized recently that this is impossible.

17, pretend you don't like things that don't belong to you, and then slowly forget them. If you don't let go now, you will gradually enter a deeper sea of suffering; Try to forget the past, curl up in the shadow of the past, and you refuse the sunshine of tomorrow; What has nothing to do with you stays outside your heart. The bag of life can't hold much. Don't always let yourself carry a heavy load. The most precious thing, the present time and the people around you, please don't throw it away easily.

18, when I was young, I even exaggerated my sentimentality. I don't know until I grow up. The more painful I am, the more silent I am. The more bitter the silence.

19, wronged, in front of others, all agreed. I called my mother, and when I heard her voice, I called my mother, and my tears came down. Because I know that when people ask what's wrong, they are more satisfied with gossip and curiosity, not necessarily really worried. Mom is really worried when she asks what's wrong. Even if the whole world doesn't care about me, what is certain is that in my mother's heart, I am her world.

20. Girls should go out more. It's not like walking alone, nor like traveling with a group. That is, a person carries a bag to a strange city and a strange scenic spot, without looking for classmates or acquaintances. The harder you work, the better. If you don't feel lost, helpless and disappointed several times, you won't know what growth is.

2 1, time will tell us that simple love lasts the longest, ordinary company is the most reassuring, and people who know you are the warmest. It is good to look at people's hearts for a long time and save them for the last time. I will have self-knowledge and be more conscious.

22. The person you finally choose may not be because of his good looks and sexy figure, but even though you know all his imperfections, you still have to hold his hand. Even without the original passion, you are still sure that you are most comfortable together.

23. If you are under pressure, go to a concert. Go to read when you are lovelorn. If you can't find the direction, move on. If everything you long for is still coming, make the waiting gesture more pious. There are countless possibilities tomorrow, so don't stop being enthusiastic tonight. Efforts are for a better life, but the premise should be to please yourself first. A person doesn't even have the ability to make himself happy, how can he talk about warming the world?

24. If you want to complain, just put it aside, collect all the negative energy and throw away some chicken soup. Exercise, painting, cooking, hiking, reading and so on, to keep yourself busy. People are too decadent because they are used to it, and they are used to it because they moan every day. Stop the so-called heartfelt words and get used to a brand-new self, sunshine and positive energy. The sun likes sunflowers, and people will like you who love to laugh. Get used to yourself and everything will be fine.

25. You can't wait for all the troubles in life to be solved before you can experience everything you want, so you will always wait like a fool. Say what you want to say now, and list the road you want to take now, even if it is not so perfect now, because the best of you is never at the end, but on the road.

26. Who likes to be a passer-by who wanders forever? If one day I hold my own soil in my hand and see the green grass growing slowly in the breeze under the clear sky, I will remember the harvest of one year and my down-to-earth mood, which is the best answer for the rest of my life.

27. One day, when I was old, someone asked me which period of my life was the happiest. Perhaps, I will not hesitate to say that it was when I was a teenager. At that time, love had not come yet, and life was carefree; The most painful things are tests and exams. I felt a lot of pressure at that time, but in retrospect, it was so small.

28. The best life is to have a puppy or kitten by your side, and then have a baby of your own, so that you can live happily all your life.

29, along the way, I am not excellent. But I am kind, not hypocritical. Let me get this straight. Do things honestly. I'm not smart. But I am definitely not stupid. I can understand many things. I just don't want to talk about it. Because people are too smart, they will be very tired. Sometimes confusion is happier. I don't like intrigue and I don't like being calculated. I don't like hypocrisy I like real people, without sarcasm, irony, calculation and sincere treatment.

30, you are kind to others, others may not appreciate it, but take it for granted, so you have been bullied. Finally, you can't bear it. They think you have changed and say everywhere that they don't know why you are suddenly like this. In fact, you just know how to respect people more than others. Kindness is synonymous with cowardice in some people's eyes. Good temper is good, but

On the Classics of Realistic Perception

1, two people together for a long time can only see each other's shortcomings, but forget that it is because they see each other's advantages that they decide to be together.

2, you may be very hard, stumbling all over, writing grievances and complaints in the state, maybe someone will comfort you, but you won't feel the same way. This is the world, you can only see the sweat of the winner, but you can't see the tears of the loser. You have to understand that you are not the only one who is busy. Everyone is paying silently with their own worries, so your injury is really nothing. Take suffering as a gift and always be on the road.

People who are worse than you have not given up, while those who are better than you are still working hard. So do it yourself.

4. Have fun, not be happy.

When you treat a person well for 99 days and treat him badly for the hundredth day, the whole world thinks you are an asshole.

6, feel lonely, I am afraid that no one will accompany me, but no one understands; I like this sentence very much: don't play a life that you are not good at for someone who doesn't belong to you.

7. Someone reaches out a hand to wipe your tears when you fail, which is better than countless people reaching out and clapping for you when you succeed.

8. Why be afraid of ghosts? People are the ones who hurt you.

9. If you have no skills, don't get too angry, or you will be in trouble. If you don't have too many abilities, don't have too many desires, otherwise it will be very painful.

10, no one can go back and start over, but anyone can write a completely different ending from now on.

1 1, you have to understand that a person's life is neither so good nor so bad as people think.

12, you should be a quiet adult. Don't be emotional, don't miss it secretly, don't look back, and live your other life. You have to listen. Not all fish live in the same sea.

13, no matter what, it is always unforgivable for a person to fall under an excuse. The more unloved you are, the more you should love yourself.

14, you are smart, some people will say that you are scheming, some people will say that you are lucky to work hard, and some people will say that your natural optimism is hypocrisy. Sometimes, you are obviously a glass of white water, but you are forced to fill your stomach with carbonated drinks. If you meet too many people in your life, as long as you are clear in your heart, you will never have to please someone who doesn't understand you.

15. Do what others don't want to do today, and you can do what others can't do tomorrow.

On the Realistic Perception Space

First, if you are sick or die suddenly, the unit you serve will find someone to replace you as soon as possible, and everything will work as usual, which is not as important as you think; And the sky of your family and loved ones will fall. So don't hold the abnormal values that God's family is sick and doesn't go home, parents don't mourn their wives when they die, and they don't have children and don't accompany them. Work moderately, spend more time with your family and cherish yourself!

Second, the love found is beautiful, but the love given without looking is even better.

Third, if I don't speak first in spring, which bug dares to reply.

Open your heart and be tolerant of others, and you will have the whole world. Remember, don't come for profit. Smile at life for profit, and you will be the happiest person.

Sometimes, you will inevitably be oversensitive. If you have more eyes, many small things will be allergic, so if others look at you more, you will feel that they are hostile to you; Look at you less. You think he snubbed you on purpose. People who are overly sensitive are doomed to have a hard life because they are too easily influenced by other people's emotions. Paranoid people are always thinking, and the result is that they are trapped in a mess of thoughts and can't move. Sometimes, it is better to care less than to care more.

Six, people live not by the body, but by the mind. Whether a person is happy or not depends on your heart, not your body, and on your daily gains and losses. If your heart is happy, then you are happy everywhere; If your heart is happy, then everything you do is happy. Sometimes, it is not others who decide our mood, but ourselves.

Seven, if you want to leave, don't give me a reason to miss it; Let my memory, no longer have you; If we never meet again, don't give me an excuse to wait; Please refuse mercilessly, let me accept helplessly, the story is over, I am confused about the past and the future, but obsessed with the present; Memories falling like autumn leaves have been crawling among the leaves. Finally, when the autumn leaves are gone, I finally choose to forget.

Eight, when I was a child, I thought that learning would have a future. When I grew up, I knew that relationship was the way out. When I was a child, I thought wearing a uniform was a good person. When I grow up, I know that most good people can't wear uniforms. When I was a child, I thought that heroes were real people, but when I grew up, I realized that they were all lies. When I was a child, I thought the Red Cross was doing good deeds. When I grew up, I realized that he was cheating money. When I was a child, I thought it was wrong to tell lies, but when I grew up, I knew it was wrong to tell the truth.

Nine, the soul can only walk alone. Companionship is not to pull others into your life track, nor to forcibly enter other people's world to find a position. Companionship is a kind of spiritual existence, just like I know that you will respond to my call at any time without saying hello.

Sometimes a change of mood will make you happier. Old people often say that the house should not be too wide, the heart should be wide, the heart is a field, and you should plant your own seeds. I think, if you can spend every day happily, your life will be as natural and healthy as a tree in the field and as fragrant and full as a flower in the field, then the whole nature will come to congratulate you. Even God will come to congratulate you. It's true. Because joy can make people beautiful, while hatred, complaint and pain can only make people ugly.

Eleven, people have a retreat, there is a little sense of security. Wait until one day, you really have no way to go, and you will find that you can take any road in front of you and cross it.

Twelve, no one knows what kind of people they will meet, but what is certain is that no matter what kind of people they are, ta also longs for your Excellence, calmness and beauty. So you don't need to spend a lot of time imagining what the future should be like, but you should use all the waiting to arm yourself. Just to meet each other one day, I can confidently say that I know you are good, but I am not bad.

Thirteen, the real light is never without darkness, but will never be obscured by darkness; A true hero never lacks humble feelings, but he never gives in to them. Therefore, before you defeat foreign enemies, you must first defeat your internal enemies.

14. The only constant in the world is impermanence. Many personnel, no matter how hard you work and how much effort you spend, are temporary even if you can have them. In an impermanent world, you need an impermanent mentality to keep up with the pace of happiness. The so-called impermanence of mind is not fickle, but indifferent to the scenery, unhappy with things, not honest with yourself, enjoying it with peace of mind, and facing the lost open-mindedness.

15. In retrospect, I suddenly realized that all my efforts in my life were just to satisfy the people around me. In order to win the praise and smile of others, I put myself into all the shackles of all patterns with trepidation. On the road, I suddenly found myself with only a vague face, a road that I can't turn back.

Sixteen, a person's beauty, not appearance, but all the past experiences, leaving scars in the heart and fading, making people strong and quiet. Therefore, elegance is not trained, but an experience. Indifference is not camouflage, but precipitation. In a sense, people will never get old, only appearance will get old, and time will make a soul more and more moving.

Seventeen, I should be a very nostalgic person, like in the past, gently fabricating a sad character, but wrapping myself in it, is it for that lonely heart, or am I lonely and nowhere to let go? I didn't even understand it myself. I wandered for a long time outside the door of lovesickness, releasing my thoughts and hiding my loneliness. Acacia is like this, rising with the wind and swaying into notes.

At the age of eighteen, I hobbled forward, even though blood and bones were scattered all over the floor.

Dreams, like freedom, have a price, but they are all worth it.

Drink a glass of water, maybe tomorrow, it will turn into tears. Once moved, maybe once, it will freeze. In this season, everything is cold, everything is faint, and vows are like the wind. What should we take to keep love? Memories can't replace reality, and tenderness can only stop in the past. In life, there will always be some feelings that are beautiful because of loss; There are always some memories that are precious because they can't go back.

Twenty-one, when life turned everything into black humor with malice, I got on the boat and turned myself into a hooligan with higher education.

22. Every day is a new hope. The ups and downs of life are unpredictable. One thing to remember is that there may be many disappointments in life, but don't despair.