I drive to work every day 1 10 km, and my salary is 7000 yuan. Do you still want to stick to it?

There are many people in our company who commute 100 km every day. I live in Beijing, from the South Fifth Ring Road to the North Fifth Ring Road, more than 50 kilometers one way. If I leave early, I can get to the company in an hour. Sitting on the subway for two or three hours will be half dead, and then squeezing the subway home during rush hour will make you want to collapse as soon as you enter the door. Driving costs money, but it is relatively comfortable. Persistence will save time.

However, turning a corner, if you earn 7000 yuan and commute 1 10 km every day, will you settle accounts? 1 10km minimum fee110 yuan, 22 working days a month, 2400 yuan. Commuting expenses alone account for one third. Unless the unit has subsidies, it is too uneconomical. Of course, if your family has money, forget it. Although those employees in our company live far away, they are generally not short of money and don't care about the 180 yuan gas money. Your salary is 7000 yuan. What good job makes you want to stay?

First, the family chooses a place to take care of his wife's workplace. You are a good man. You'd rather commute 100 kilometers every day to take care of your wife.

The second is the place where the family takes care of the children to go to school. If children want to go to the best school, parents must of course accommodate their children. After all, children's study time is relatively fixed. So renting a house around the school may be far from your unit. Who made you a father?

Third, the unit moved. I used to live near my unit, but later my unit moved from the Second Ring Road to the Fifth Ring Road. What shall we do? I'm doing well at work, and I can only run around every day.

First, you can't bear to quit your job. Your wife's job can't accommodate you, so you have to suffer. There are many people like you in Beijing. After all, you still have a home and a car. Suppose in Beijing, a Tongzhou district and a Shijingshan district, two people fall in love, so it's called long-distance love, okay? Living in the same city, we can only meet once a week.

The second salary is 7000 yuan, which is a bit cost-effective compared with your monthly fuel cost of 2400 yuan. Either you try to get a promotion and a raise, or you apply for subsidies to increase your income. Otherwise, you can quit your job and find a job near your home. Why bother?

Third, if the wife can accommodate it and the children's school can accommodate it, it is best to change a house near the unit. It is best for a family of three to accommodate themselves and choose a relatively reasonable position. I'd rather have a smaller house than commute too long.

Commuting 1 10 km a day and earning 7,000 yuan a month are somewhat contradictory, but it seems a bit simple to infer that you want to resign with two figures. If this job is good, suitable for you and promising, quit to save money? For the company, the principle is not where you live, but whether you are on time. The choice of residence must be decided by your family. You can move, rent a house or take the subway, which can solve the problem of long distance. Whether to resign or not should be considered comprehensively. It is not good for outsiders to give you advice.

7 thousand is a little small, but it can be done. I used to drive 120 km to work. I drove from Huishui County, Guizhou Province to work in Guiyang. 60 kilometers on one side. Driving a horse six, the fuel consumption per kilometer is less than 50 cents. That is, the fuel cost is 60 yuan, the toll fee is 10 yuan, and one day is 80 yuan. There is no parking fee. The cost of working 22 days a month is 1780. Although I run so far every day, I spend less time than my colleagues in the city. But I don't go back for a day or two a week. It doesn't really cost much. Seven thousand dollars is ok. Of course, if you want to go back every day, 1 10 km is also the whole expressway, and the toll is very high, and parking fees are also charged. The unit still doesn't include food and shelter. There is not much money after that month. Then there is no need to insist.

A 40-year-old brother around me was sent to a county-level unit by the unit. Although he is on duty, he still needs to be on duty every day. The specific reason is that the team of this unit is understaffed, and he has corresponding responsibilities, only one department level, with a monthly salary of 8 K. This eldest brother has a child who has just entered primary school, and his daughter-in-law is busy with work. Although her parents and in-laws don't have to worry about their health, they have something to do for three days. It is 80 kilometers from our second-tier city to the county-level unit where he is stationed. The train has only green skin and no high-speed rail. It takes three hours by train, so I go back and forth by car every day 160 km. I used to drive A4, but later I felt that the fuel consumption was high, so I sold A4 and bought a second-hand Corolla. Because my daughter-in-law is very busy at work, she often travels. Even if the company has important work, she will drive back to accompany the children after 10 pm.

When the age is up, there are old people in the world and young people in the world. Who doesn't want to watch the hot kang of his wife and children? But the reality is that if you give up this position, it is equivalent to giving up your future. Even if there is no pressure of various loans, there is pressure from children and parents, so this kind of thing can only be done by yourself. You can easily put aside the pressure on your shoulders, so that you can bear less, and your wife and the elderly can bear more. While you are still in good health, you have everything.

I have also experienced a 58-kilometer one-way trip from Guangzhou to Foshan. I have to get up after 6 o'clock in the morning and drive by myself. Arrive at the company before 8 o'clock every day and go home at 5: 30 in the afternoon. It's about evening when I get home 19: 15. It's all for the children. I want to spend more time with them. My salary is only 6500. I run 26 days a month, and the fuel cost is almost 1000 yuan. My Toyota Lei Ling is more fuel efficient, but I dare not get on the expressway, mainly because I have no money in my wallet. I can't stick to it for two months, mainly because I'm too tired! Finally, I resigned and looked for a job at home. Although the salary is not high, the most important thing is that the family is together!

There is no need to continue!

My situation is similar to yours. I work in Shanghai and live in Huaqiao, Kunshan. Drive 50 kilometers at a time. But basically it takes time to drive and take the subway. If you drive for an hour, the toll will be one-way to 20 yuan, and the fuel fee will be 25 yuan. This is 45 yuan. Find 90 yuan. According to the minimum parking fee, it costs 100 yuan a day. 3,000 a month (in fact, Shanghai is not enough). My salary here is more than 7000 yuan, but I can't afford to drive a car every day, which is equal to voluntary labor.

You and I can compare, about 2000 a month, 7000 jobs, only 5000 in hand. There are other expenses. Personal feelings have little meaning. Typing is not easy, please refer to.

Persistence or not depends on whether the job is worth your persistence.

I'm in the same situation as you, maybe more entangled than you. I work within the system. The distance from my work to my home is 63 kilometers, and the middle 20 kilometers is the expressway. It costs 70 yuan for gas and travel, but my monthly salary is 4500 yuan, with an average of 150 per day, and the travel expenses account for half of my salary. Because of this, I usually live in the company at least two nights a week, which can reduce travel expenses and reduce economic pressure.

I don't know whether you work in an enterprise or in the government. If you work in an enterprise, you will have more choices. If you can have a job opportunity with similar conditions, you can give up here decisively. If the prospect of this job is good, you can stick to it. Changing jobs is a bit expensive. If you are in the government, we'll just have to wait for the opportunity to change jobs. Closer to home, life is not so hard.

I have had the urge to resign many times, but in a small place like ours, the salary is above the average. For the sake of livelihood and stability, I can only choose to run back and forth.

If you want to persist in anything, you must have a point worthy of persistence, and it is difficult to absolutely balance work and life. I insist on the "iron rice bowl". I hope you can find your own point!

Tell me about the real people around you, hoping to help you.

Colleague Xiao Wang drives 70 kilometers to and from work every day, with a salary of 4,000 yuan, from 2065,438+04 to 2065,438+09,65,438+0.

I chose this job because as a springboard, this company has a branch in his home, which can be adjusted later.

His previous job was in another city, and he could only go home on weekends or holidays. It is not easy for his daughter-in-law to take care of the children at home alone. This job is closer to home and I can go home every day.

However, there is also a problem. The salary is not high, but the monthly fuel cost is seven or eight hundred, which is too much. Later, he found five people in similar situations on the Internet, carpooled together, and each took turns driving. He used your car this month and mine next month, and paid 200 fares every month. This not only saves money, but also enables drivers to earn some extra money.

After working for a year and a half, the market has changed, and the company staff of Xiao Wang's family are saturated and do not accept secondment or assignment. At that time, Xiao Wang hesitated and even interviewed other companies, but the industry prospects and treatment were not very good. Because of his excellent business skills, the boss of the company valued him very much at that time, and talked with him privately to hold his temper, and the company would also help find opportunities to coordinate.

The leader did keep his promise. At the beginning of this year, he found an opportunity and was transferred to the branch office. Xiao Wang no longer has to get up at 6 o'clock in the morning to go to work in a hurry. He can take care of his family without affecting his career development, killing two birds with one stone.

I say this example to tell you: you should see whether your current job is beneficial to the future, such as career development and ability improvement, which can be used as a springboard for career promotion. If there is, don't worry about the distance and temporary salary.

Tell me about my experience. My experience is similar. In the first two years, I went to work from Suzhou to Changshu every day, and traveled back and forth 1 10 km every day. Last year, it was about 200,000 yuan, and the tax deduction was 20,000 yuan. But this year I chose to go back to Suzhou Park to find a job. Get 7000 a month, 654.38+ ten thousand a year, but you can stay with your family and watch your children grow up. People just want to give and take, depending on what you like. If you have children, it is important to watch them and grow up with them. Besides, the daily round-trip distance is 1 10 km, and the speed on the road is very fast and dangerous.

This kind of mood, I especially understand you.

Now I commute 60 kilometers every day, and the traffic jam is 60 kilometers. The salary is not very high either.

I thought it would be easier after buying a car and I could sleep more in the morning.

But the truth is-

Get up early as usual and get up at half past six. If it is too late, there will be more traffic jams on the road, then you will be late. If you are late, you will be deducted. We go to work at half past eight.

② Start as early as possible and as late as possible. Besides the traffic jam, you have to find a parking space for half a day after you get to the company. Key companies are still printing fingerprint cards. At this age, the company still uses such a backward system, which is very helpless.

Tell me about your situation.

I want to know where you work.

If you are in a city like Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, the salary of 7000 yuan is really not high enough. If you open it again, the cost of oil, maintenance and insurance will be 7788 yuan, which will cost tens of thousands a year. And it's so far to work, I suggest you change your job. The cost performance is too low.

If you are in a third-and fourth-tier city, the salary of 7000 yuan should be good. At least the price is much less than that of first-tier cities. I don't hate it when I work, and I can continue to work.

Who comes out to work for money?

If the money is ok, just bear it.

Money can't pass, and there is no need to endure it.

I commute to work every day 1 10 km and drive to work by myself. If the traffic jam is not the fastest, I go to work for an hour and get off work for an hour. The salary is 7,000 yuan, neither high nor low, and the average level.

If he is not married and has children, it is estimated that he will not insist on driving to and from work every day. Most people will save gas money and rent a room near the company, which will save money and effort.

If he buys a house and has no family, he can rent it out and rent a house near the company to facilitate his work, so I guess he should get married and have children, and the house he bought is close to the suburbs and he has to drive to and from work every day.

In a word, less money and more work far from home.

The amount of money is relative. If you have a mortgage and children, 7000 yuan is not enough. Moreover, I believe in high wages. Even if the work is far from home, most people still choose to stick to it. After all, money can improve your quality of life, not to mention families with children, milk powder money, nutritious meals and education expenses, which are very big expenses.

For this problem, I suggest you know the market first. For example, if you want to change jobs now, how much can you find? Can you raise your salary by 30%, or find a place closer to home?

If we can't find it, then we will solve the other two problems.

For example, punching in early at work and working overtime at night, even if your commute time is short, you can't stand such a toss. What's more, it takes two hours to drive to and from work. If you punch in at 9: 00 in the morning, you have to go out one hour earlier, so you have to go out at 7: 40, so you have to get up at 7: 00, and then you have to work overtime at night, so you have to get off work at 2 1:00 at the latest, otherwise you won't be home until after1. Generally speaking, if you don't get enough sleep, it will involve fatigue driving.

If there are many things, it is recommended to rent a house nearby and move the whole family. On the one hand, the house you buy can be rented out, which can subsidize part of the rent and save most of the gas money. If you keep adding, you won't lose too much. The most important thing is that you still have two hours, so don't drive and relax. Secondly, you have enough rest time, even if you work late.

Or you feel that there are fewer things and you can't see the development prospects of your job. If you want to change a promising job, start submitting your resume now, find a better opportunity, get an offer, and then resign.

Usually, the closer to the urban area, the higher the house price, the smaller the living area, and the farther away from the urban area, the lower the house price, but the larger the living area, depending on your pursuit of quality of life.

For example, if you are still young and your career is just starting, then your requirements for living space are not particularly high at this time, as long as it is convenient for commuting, and the rent is relatively expensive, so don't worry.

If you already have a family, you have to consider the quality of life of the whole family. If possible, try not to let your family live in a small room, and try to let your family live in a spacious and comfortable space, so at this time you should choose a house far away from the city and in the suburbs.

Learn to analyze your current situation. If your child is just born, or one or two years old, and your career is developing, you can compromise and choose a place closer to the city, because making money is more important than saving money. I'm sure you can understand. Moreover, children are relatively young, and the requirements for living space are not too great, as long as adults can accompany him and take care of him.

If the children are older, 6 or 7 years old, they may need more space at this time, so they can only stick to it and find a job with higher income.

Any job, any problem that bothers you, is actually rooted in lack of money. Although vulgar, it is like this in real life.

If you have money, you can live near the company or buy it near the company, so you don't have to run around. So anyway, I suggest you look for better opportunities when you join the company. Because the salary of 7,000 yuan shows that you are competitive, I think you can still find a better job, but don't go to naked resignation. You must submit your resume at work. Don't apply for an interview casually. You can only go to the interview if you choose someone better than you are now.

The above statement is purely personal advice, for reference only. How to do it depends on your own actual situation.

Good luck with your work.