Wife's talk, asking for trouble, why shout pain. Blame yourself. What do you mean?

First, maybe she felt unhappy with you, but she chose to be with you, no wonder others.

Second, maybe she is mocking some people, and the difficulties she encountered are of her own making, so she can't blame others.

Third, it is also possible that you just don't know where to read this sentence and think it is good. You can write it down by putting an X on it.