What if I don't like my stepmother? She always comes into my room without knocking, and doesn't close the door when she urinates. She is a girl of 14 years old.

First of all, you should keep your distance from your stepfather, avoid being alone with him, and pay attention to your clothes in summer! Secondly, pay attention-it is not a normal man's job to leave the door open when you go to the toilet and sleep. At least you should pay attention to some problems! I suggest you lock the door at night, and tell him seriously after he comes out of the toilet: Dad, please lock the door in the toilet in the future. After all, I am a girl and your daughter! Let's get along well! Look him in the eye when you speak, be firm and firm, let him know your attitude, know that you are no longer a child's mentality, and be afraid of you. Better say it in front of mom. Don't think it is bad. On the contrary, having a mother present has two advantages: first, it is important for your mother to pay attention to such things. You should find a chance to talk to your mother alone and talk about your worries. As a mother, a person with a daughter must also have the responsibility to pay attention to getting along with her children and each other, especially the opposite sex! Is whether the relationship between your daughter and her stepfather or stepfather's son is appropriate, carefully observe and supervise. Second, let your stepfather know your courage. Girls-please know that being strong is very, very important for girls when no one is protecting you. Being too weak will make the bad guys push their luck. Believe me, don't listen to what the following people say (you know you can't tolerate small things and contradictions, but once it's about such sensitive events, you must make it clear, and then just pretend to get along as usual)-if girls are timid, they will definitely encourage the wicked to be arrogant.

Sleeping stepfather often comes in, which is very bad. Talk to your mother alone and ask him to remind your stepfather. If your mother asks you anything, answer truthfully. Don't hide, tell your worries.

Last but not least, children of combined families must pay attention-if nothing happens, that's good. If there is even a little sexual harassment, you must find an opportunity to tell your mother alone, be firm and don't be ambiguous. Some mothers are too careless and too confident in their other half's personality, so they should be firm and powerful when speaking. Don't think that they will submit to humiliation for the sake of their mother's family, but you should know that the wicked will always be more unscrupulous because their partners are timid. When things are finished, people who really love you can be paid attention to and take countermeasures. After all, you are only 14 years old. If dealing with this kind of thing alone is not effective, you must make it clear to your mother, and ask her to pay more attention to your stepfather and your behavior in the future! Generally, mothers will know what to do when things are mature, so you just need to pay attention to your own life and live the same life! Don't rule out another situation-even if your mother is weak, you should treat yourself as an adult and be tough and confident when harassed by the wicked. If you are timid, the consequences are unimaginable. If you study, you should find a reason to live on campus and study wholeheartedly, avoid going home alone with him, and pay attention when you go home. If the situation is serious and your mother says she can't help you, you should call the police. ) you must work hard on your own, don't influence yourself, and be inspired to enter the university. Life is your own and ultimately your own control. Any action you take will determine your future self. Grasp your future through learning, spend the least and gain the most. Come on-finally extend my best wishes! I studied psychology. I have some contacts. You can contact me if you have anything. If I see it, I will reply.