Please talk about your views on puppy love!

Puppy love: Puppy love refers to the establishment of love relationship between teenagers. The word "puppy love" is only widely used in Chinese mainland.

Puppy love generally refers to the love between teenagers who have not entered the university stage, especially the love between primary and secondary school students. Twenty years' investigation in China shows that many people had feelings in middle school.

Most of them are unrequited love and unrequited love. Only when you have a good impression on each other can you develop into puppy love. Puppy love behavior is based on the sexual and physical development of teenagers, and it is also the practice of transforming psychology into behavior.

Adolescence love refers to the love behavior that occurs in adolescence, or the love for the opposite sex. In China, traditional elders and exam-oriented educators generally believe that love before 16 should be counted as "puppy love" and strongly oppose this kind of love behavior.

After entering adolescence, teenagers with heterosexual tendencies will take the initiative to approach the opposite sex they like. Frequent exchanges and mutual affection between the two sides may produce love.

Puppy love usually has four characteristics: obscure, contradictory, different and changeable.

Should puppy love be resisted? Is puppy love really harmful to children? Our parents have two different views on puppy love: neutrality and resolute opposition. Generally speaking, it is because some parents think that puppy love is not well guided and does little harm. Some parents think puppy love is extremely dangerous.

Adverse effects:

Dog lovers may be distracted, which changes their interests and goals. It can be seen that the damage caused by puppy love is mainly not because of puppy love itself, but from all kinds of pressures suffered by puppy love, including physical and psychological.

It is very common that teenagers have poor self-control ability, often have no intention to study, and their grades drop. This is the most important reason why people who oppose puppy love oppose puppy love.

Teenagers are enthusiastic, impulsive and have poor self-control ability. Therefore, many boys and girls in love can't control their feelings and have sex prematurely. This is the most serious harm caused by puppy love to both sides' bodies and minds.

Dog lovers are generally young and energetic, and are very sensitive to some events. Especially in front of his girlfriend, boys are angry with some behaviors that make them "jealous" and fight with some people, which leads to crimes.

On the other hand, due to the parents' lack of support, the money cost of falling in love can not be obtained, which induces the idea of stealing. This is the most serious harm of puppy love to society.

Positive significance:

Undeniably, in some cases, puppy love also has its advantages, which is very common among students. Some students think that puppy lovers often catch up with each other in grades to get each other's pleasure and preference, thus making their grades rise; There are also some bad characters and habits, which have been corrected because they have a kind of worship for someone, restrain themselves from liking anything everywhere in life, and take the standard of worship as the criterion of life. Puppy love can also make people exercise their social skills and enhance interpersonal relationships.

Conclusion: Everything affects everyone differently. What is good for others may be bad for you, and so is puppy love. It depends on how you handle this matter.

But in general, it is better not to fall in love under big data. It is still necessary to pay more attention to children's mental health development and find problems in time.