Let's talk about why people must find outside recognition to be happy.

Everyone lives in this society. If they abide by the rules of this society and get everyone's approval, they will have a sense of security and have a higher evaluation of their own value. . . This is the universality of human beings. . . However, everyone's reaction to external evaluation and recognition is different, just as some people can tolerate loneliness and disapproval from others, while others can only live in recognition and appreciation from others. I don't want to say what kind of person is better, nor what kind of person we should be. After all, some things are beyond our control! Forgive ourselves, so that we can relax ourselves. Although the recognition of the outside world helps us to know ourselves more clearly, we must have an evaluation of ourselves and know ourselves, so that even if others make a wrong evaluation of us, we can keep ourselves and not deny ourselves with the negation of the outside world. . .