How to get along with your mother-in-law?

In a woman's marriage, her mother-in-law is a role that cannot be ignored. Getting along well with your mother-in-law is equivalent to having another mother who loves you, and not getting along well with her mother-in-law is equivalent to setting up an enemy. We should master the way to get along with our mother-in-law and turn her into a real mother.

First, start from yourself, change your mind and accept your mother-in-law psychologically. "If you want to be sincere, you must first pay sincerity." If your mother-in-law is kind to you, first of all, you can't be influenced by outside thoughts, so you should always be prepared to quarrel with your mother-in-law. You should respect your mother-in-law as an elder and care for her as a relative. "Reach out and don't laugh." Even if your mother-in-law has a bad temper and you treat her well, respect her and care about her, she is embarrassed to be too hard on you.

Second, express goodwill through material things and be attentive to your mother-in-law. It is better to do well than to say well. After accepting her mother-in-law ideologically, we should pay more attention to her food and clothing, such as buying her some gifts or delicious food on holidays. Always care whether my mother-in-law wants to buy or eat; It's cold to remind her mother-in-law to pay more attention to dressing; When doing housework, my mother-in-law offered to help. Everything you do, your mother-in-law will remember in her eyes. If you have perseverance, your mother-in-law will be moved by you.

Third, in front of your mother-in-law, don't just tell your husband to do things. The son is the mother-in-law's baby. Don't always ask her son to do things in front of her mother-in-law. Respect your husband and love him more. Doing so will leave a good impression on my mother-in-law and make it easier to get along with her. Husband is an effective medium to adjust the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. You can ask your husband to put in a good word for you in front of your mother-in-law. Of course, you should pay attention to your husband, praise her mother-in-law first, and then put in a good word for you to avoid making her jealous, which is counterproductive.

Finally, get along with your mother-in-law and be generous. "It is human nature to make mistakes." When her mother-in-law makes mistakes, we should be tolerant of her. Older people always like to nag, even a little wordy. Don't take it to heart when your mother-in-law nags. If her mother-in-law says something ugly, you will be deaf. Everything goes well at home. Only by mastering the way to get along with your mother-in-law can you get along well with your family.