Prove strength with actions and defend dignity with performance

On the wall to the right of the stairs of our real estate company is written this sentence: "Prove strength with actions, defend dignity with performance." This sentence is deeply engraved in my heart.

Every time I take a client to see a house again and again but no deal is concluded, every time I am criticized by my boss for saying the wrong thing in cooperation, every time a sales expert among my colleagues points out my "mistakes", my I felt extremely uncomfortable in my heart. But I understand that although I didn’t close the deal when I took clients to see houses, I gained experience time and time again. My boss criticized me because of my improper cooperation in order to make me improve. The sales elites among my colleagues gave me guidance and helped me find my own gaps.

I am still silently persisting in the long runway of my career. I have enough patience to persist. I believe that I will do better and better.

In the WeChat chat with my sister tonight, I could hear what she meant: I have invested in houses here for so many years but I have not received a high return. In fact, I did take up some money from my sister and parents at home. I used to buy a house to pay off the mortgage, and later I invested in e-commerce. In short, my family was always paying for me, but I didn't get the rewards I deserved. I often feel uncomfortable in my heart. Unfortunately, my abilities were limited and my situation never got better. I felt ashamed and powerless. Whenever my father or sister accidentally said something that offended my self-esteem due to something, I felt very painful. I wish I could get rich immediately to repay what they have done to me. However, I still never got rich, and even got worse.

? I have dreamed of getting rich time and time again, doing e-commerce, investing in stocks, and pinning my hopes on some frivolous things. In the end, I still had to rely on working hard to earn a living. I finally discovered that all the illusory dreams of getting rich were not as reliable as my own hard work. Even though I received a small salary every month, at least I earned it through my real efforts and hard work. I also gradually understood that occupying the hard-earned money of relatives is selfish in a sense and disgusting to relatives. No one would be willing to use their hard-earned money to constantly support a lazy man who is lazy and lazy.

Colleague Xiaoquan often says: "Is it so difficult for us not to be poor? Then why are we so lazy?" Yes, I really should reflect on why my life has ended up like this? If you don't work hard, gods can't save a person who has lost his fighting spirit...

So, I no longer complain about why fate is so unfair, why do I have to live such a life, today's status quo is all yesterday's choices, Today's choices will also create tomorrow's results... I understand that only down-to-earth efforts are the most reliable. What others can do, I can also try to do.

I am determined to change myself, restrain myself with the strict system of the real estate company, and strive to become a better and capable woman. Only through down-to-earth efforts can we ultimately prove our strength, and only through performance that proves our results can we defend our dignity.

In any industry, it takes three days to fish and two days to dry the net. Only by focusing on the industry itself can you get the best returns. Just like my sister, although she is a civil servant who is envied by many people, and of course also underestimated by many people, she has developed skills in her job and can handle various tasks with ease. At the same time, she pays great attention to Improve yourself and have very strong comprehensive ability. His speech, behavior, and social interactions are all very admirable. I think it was her who practiced day after day at her job, suffered countless hardships, and encountered many setbacks, and finally got promoted and received a salary increase, and she was like a fish in water... A person's potential is huge, just look at it Are you willing to dig it out? In the past, I was immersed in poetic freedom and romance, and was never pragmatic, because I rarely worry about my future life when I am alone. It wasn't until I got married and had children that I realized that money doesn't come with strong winds. It takes real hard work to finally buy a happy and solid life.

In the blink of an eye, at the age of 36, I realized too late what others realized long ago. As a late-maturing person, I should change myself soberly and constantly look for a better self. Hard work pays off. As long as I have enough patience, over time, I can do what others can do, little by little. What is past is gone forever and cannot be brought back. All we can grasp is now, only the moment. As long as you don’t allow it, no one can deprive you of your right to live a noble life! Your nobility is given by yourself, use actions to prove your strength, and your final performance will defend your dignity!