Yun-peng Yue sent a message that he had failed in tutoring his homework. What is his experience in helping children with their homework?

Tutoring children with homework is like learning from the west, the only difference is that you never know there are still many difficulties waiting for you.

I have seen many married families with children around them. As long as we talk about children, the most talked-about topic is the children's learning situation, and tutoring homework is a headache for both husband and wife. This is not to help children with their homework, but to find their own homework opportunities. Finally, the children feel that they are back in school. Things like tutoring homework have great challenges to their emotional control, thinking transformation and time consumption.

First of all, tutoring homework has very strong requirements for your emotional control.

There are many things on the Internet about parents being angry with their children's homework. For example, on 20 18, a baby mother in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province was hospitalized because her child's homework was too inky, which eventually led to her being hospitalized because of an angry cerebral infarction. Being hospitalized like a baby mother is really serious. Parents who can stay in hospital without getting angry are also very important. When assigning homework to children, you must repeatedly emphasize yourself and control your emotions, otherwise you don't know when you will get angry because you can't stand it. Often the soft-spoken teaching in the study will suddenly become a battlefield where chickens fly and dogs jump.

Secondly, in the face of children's strange problems, we must always transform our self-thinking.

Children are naturally curious, and when faced with homework, they often put their inner imagination into homework. It is these common-sense children's cognition of the world that makes their parents emotionally collapse. For example, what is the title of the composition? Say a few words of thanks to mom for making breakfast for herself? And children can write directly? My mother can't cook breakfast? This kind of homework makes parents explode instantly, because it is completely impossible to look at children's thinking from an adult's point of view. In the face of immature cognition in children's homework, parents must make adjustments in their thinking at any time.

Finally, children's homework guidance consumes a lot of parents' life time.

Parents bear their own family responsibilities, some need to take care of their material income, and some need to formulate their spiritual needs. In the face of this high-pressure work rhythm, the time outside work is particularly rare and precious, and once homework is assigned, it takes as little as an hour and as many as a few hours, but we can't ignore the tutorial work and can only spend time doing these things.

Conclusion: Tutoring homework can only pay attention to the correct method, and the wrong method will bring a lot of trouble to parents.