I fell in love with my date. How can I get his attention?

I am 46 years old, and I have lived a single life with my children for 15 years. Now that the children are older, they will get married soon. I hope to find a partner and live a good life. I didn't expect to meet love rat.

My first marriage lasted only five years, and finally it ended well because of emotional discord. After the divorce, my 3-year-old son and I had a hard time. Fortunately, my brothers and sisters are very business-minded and invited me to do business together. In this way, we jointly opened a supermarket and did well in Guiyang, opening a chain store.

This year is 15 years after divorce, and my son has lived up to expectations. He is currently a soldier in the army. I am very rich now. I have two houses, one is my son's wedding room, and the other is now living by myself. Usually, I have nothing to do. I will stay in the shop during the day. My sister often advises me not to work so hard, but I have nothing to do but look after the shop. After living alone for too long, I still want to find another object to develop well and get married, that is, to find myself a partner. My friend introduced me to a few, but nothing came of it.

Four months ago, I was dragged by my best friend to learn ballroom dancing. She is a lively person. As soon as I went, she introduced me to a date. My partner is good-looking and friendly. Look, I'm new here. It's not bad to take me to learn. I don't even know the basic dance steps. He taught me patiently. I studied for a while, and my body movements gradually coordinated. But as soon as the music started, I panicked and stepped on my partner's foot many times. I was particularly embarrassed to watch him rub the footprints on his shoes. But he comforted me: "it's always like this at first, and it will get better gradually." Under his gentle appeasement, I slowly found the feeling and coordinated my movements a lot.

On the way back, my best friend asked me what I thought of my partner. She told me that the man she introduced me to worked in a public institution and got divorced. He also said that he was a good man and let me seize the opportunity. What she said was very vivid, and besides, he was really good to me, and I was a little tempted. During that time, I learned to dance with my best friend every day, and always with the same partner. Gradually, I got to know him. Almost every day, he will call me for a while, say hello, chat and invite me to dinner many times. I think he is so attentive, plus I have a good impression on him. I have been there several times. Every time I have dinner with him, he will order a small bottle of white wine and persuade me to drink a little. I just had a drink with him. After dinner, he will take the initiative to find me a room to rest. As an adult, of course I know what he means. Thinking that I don't know him well, I don't want to make the relationship so complicated so quickly. I refused every time.

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