How to deal with the relationship between neighbors?

Nowadays, the issue of neighbor relations is indeed a big issue.

Regarding the issue of "downstairs neighbors", we should start from the following points

1. Start with yourself. As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. If you look up and don't see each other, try not to cause conflicts. You should improve your own quality and not affect your neighbors. You can also say nice things to your neighbors, and they usually won't cause trouble.

2. Do not promise to give up the use of force. When you live at home, it is inevitable that there will be big noises from time to time. Some neighbors like to cause trouble for their neighbors over trivial matters. If a neighbor offers persuasion with kind words, we should accept it rationally. If the neighbor treats us as a soft persimmon, we should try not to do anything, but our attitude should be tougher. Sometimes it is not a wise choice to just tolerate it.

3. When the second point occurs, if conditions permit or it is possible, you can take something to sit with the neighbor downstairs after a while. The attitude should not be too humble, but it must be respectful. Some. You can chat with your neighbors to ease the relationship. This also lets the neighbors know that we are not unreasonable people, and we are not soft persimmons who can be manipulated casually. This might lead to less trouble.

Everyone has a different personality, so you should be more flexible and handle it in the right way. Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and the sky will be brighter. Try to achieve the best results without violating laws and regulations.

Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. I think neighbors should live in harmony. First, young people working in the city are busy with work and rarely visit. Almost none of the neighbors next door have met. I think this is the case. It's not very good either. You should move around more often without affecting your life. It's not easy for young people to live in the city. This way they can help each other when encountering difficulties. One more friend and one more road. Second: There are more elderly people in rural areas now, and young people are working outside. They have less time to take care of the elderly, and they may not be able to take care of them. In this way, rural neighbors can pay attention to each other and solve urgent needs as soon as possible, so regardless of Whether in the countryside or in the city, you should help each other and respect each other with your neighbors, find the best way to solve problems peacefully, and become a family of neighbors, trusting each other and helping each other. I believe that such a life will be very happy!

Which neighbor you encounter depends entirely on your luck.

Neighbors should help and be considerate of each other. For example, our neighbor upstairs skips rope from time to time every day. While we sleep. While we are eating or while we are resting. The entire baseboard vibrates. But this situation is not common. In most cases. We will all be very light. Because there are old people downstairs. It’s easy to get a bad rest.

Our community is an old community, and cars often cannot get out after parking in it. One time, someone thought that his car was blocked by us, so I apologized to him, but he was also embarrassed. It’s not a big problem and everyone can be humble to each other.

Share some tips:

1. Take the initiative to say hello when you meet, and say hello politely. When you open the door every day, the people you see are your neighbors. When you close the door every day, the last person you see is probably your neighbor. , so if you want to have a good relationship with your neighbors, you must learn to say hello proactively and politely when you meet. You can chat with your neighbors about some daily life topics, such as what your family is cooking today, where the delicious food is sold, etc. Wait, talking about everyday things can also enhance your relationship.

2. We usually visit many places. We live across the street and we don’t know each other, let alone visiting. If you want to have a good neighborly relationship, you usually visit many places. When everyone is at home Sometimes, we can sit and chat with our neighbors, or we can invite our neighbors to play at our home, introduce our family members, and visit our home. This is trust in the other party and allows our neighbors to see our sincerity, and our feelings will naturally grow. Improved.

3. Have things to share. Good neighborly relations are built up little by little. Maybe we don’t have much time to connect with neighbors, but we can share interesting things. You can share it with your neighbors. If you have happy things, you can talk to them. If you have fun things, you can play with them. If you have delicious food, you can also send some to your neighbors to express your feelings and make the relationship between neighbors feel like family. I always have you in my heart.

4. There can be Neighbors’ Festival. Neighbors’ Festival is now held in many places to bring together neighbors who usually don’t get together to have a lively Neighbors’ Festival. On Neighbors’ Day, you can hold some activities. You can prepare many delicious dishes for the table. Men, women and children can gather together and chat about work, gossip, make-up and dress up. Everyone can enjoy playing together on this day.

5. You can go on vacation with your neighbors. Normal time is limited, and the time we have to connect with each other is also limited. But when we are on vacation, we have a lot of time. We can go where we want to play, and sometimes go out as a family. If you feel that the number of people is still a bit small, then invite your neighbors to join you. If there are more people, more people will take care of you. If there are more people, there will be more excitement and happiness. So vacationing with your neighbors can make you enjoy your vacation to the fullest. Can cultivate more neighborly feelings with neighbors.

6. Help each other when there is something. Stop being indifferent people. We are just separated by two doors and cannot be divided into two isolated worlds. We are all emotional people, so when our neighbors need help, we We must take the initiative to help and let our neighbors have a good impression of us, so that next time we need help ourselves, our neighbors will definitely come to help us, making the relationship more harmonious.

7. Treat neighbors as friends. Neighbors are closer to us than relatives and friends. We live in the same circle as our neighbors, so good neighborly relations are directly related to our daily mood, and even more so. It is directly related to our lives, so we should treat our neighbors like friends, get along well with each other, and cultivate the relationship between neighbors into a deep relationship like best friends, so that our lives will be better, there will be more laughter, and the environment will be more wonderful.

8. Be considerate of each other. Living in the same place, there will inevitably be some bumps and bruises. For example, if a neighbor’s behavior affects your own life or disturbs you, we should not rush to deal with it rashly. When asking questions, we must learn to be considerate of each other, speak kind words first, reason well with our neighbors, talk about the impact on ourselves, politely advise our neighbors, and make our neighbors embarrassed by our behavior instead of causing quarrels, so it is very important to be considerate to each other. important.

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Don’t be silent when you meet, but say hello warmly

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Frequently go to your neighbor’s house to sit and chat. The reason why the emotional basis of chattering people is established is because of constant contact. ...

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Participate in more community-organized activities. Nowadays, in the city, there are many high-rise buildings. ...

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Lend a helping hand when your neighbors are in trouble

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Have something in abundance yourself You can share some with your neighbors. Maybe your family’s financial situation is pretty good and you often have some surplus. However, if you don’t deal with it in time, it will cause waste. ...

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Both parties should respect each other and not interfere in other people’s private affairs

As the old saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. This sentence is important at all times. In the past, in the countryside, we never picked up lost items on the road, and we never closed our doors at night. Neighbors were as close as one family. If someone has something to do, everyone is free to help. However, due to the influence of urban trends, the neighborhood relations in rural areas have also changed to some extent, and they are not as pure as before. Perhaps it was due to the lack of material resources in that era that people were relatively pure spiritually. Neighborhood relations in the city are also very important. For example, there are many news reports that if there are elderly people or children at home, even the neighbors will not know what happened. Living in the same building or even door to door without contacting each other is very bad and does not conform to the values ??of traditional Chinese society. Everyone has a short horse and a short pedal. When the mountains are high and the water is low, it is impossible to live without asking for everything. So no matter where you live, you must have good relations with your neighbors. Only when neighbors are harmonious can the entire society be harmonious. When society is harmonious, the entire country will be united and stable.

Neighbors look up but never look down at each other, and it is necessary to say hello when they meet. Neighbors living in big cities don’t interact much with each other. In the small county where I live, everyone in the community basically knows each other. Neighbors upstairs and downstairs often get together to drink. The one next door to my house He is a pork seller, and I basically help him anyway, so we get along pretty well with him.

Neighbors are distant relatives rather than close neighbors. After getting along for a long time, they become like family members. Everyone helps each other in times of crisis.

It is inevitable that there will be leaks upstairs and downstairs, and neighbors will inevitably bump into each other. Don’t give in to each other over trivial matters. Don’t gossip about others behind their backs. Neighbors should be considerate of each other and say hello when we meet. A harmonious society depends on you and me. .

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Respect each other.

The most important thing between neighbors is mutual respect. Regardless of whether the other person's living conditions are at the same level as yours, you should not underestimate the other person, but should give them due respect.

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Tolerate each other.

Sometimes the children next door will be a little naughty and may make a noise, affecting your rest. You should also be tolerant, so that the relationship between neighbors can be more harmonious.

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Help each other.

Neighbors should help each other. If the other person is an old person, a weak woman, or a child, they should help as much as possible to accumulate more merit and good karma for themselves. In this way, the relationship between neighbors will become better.

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Communicate more.

Sometimes there may be deviations in the way we deal with our neighbors, causing misunderstandings. Therefore, we should communicate more with each other on weekdays and try to resolve some misunderstandings, so that we can get along well with each other. It will be more harmonious.

The key to dealing with neighborly relations is to "watch and help each other." The word "shouwang once" is not difficult to understand just from the literal meaning. If we explain the word "shouwang", it means to watch over and then lend a helping hand to help each other. Only by helping each other can the neighborly relationship be like a spring breeze and live in harmony.

But the current relationship between neighbors is like "hearing the sounds of chickens and dogs, and never interacting with each other until old age and death". It seems that everyone has returned to the "Stone Age", hiding in modern buildings made of reinforced concrete and "keeping away." "Dongtian", the surrounding neighbors are indifferent. Even if they meet by chance in the elevator, they turn a blind eye and become strangers.

Who knows that the moon is haloed and the wind is blowing, and the moon is moist and it is raining. Neighbors are less likely to help each other because they fail to keep watch. Therefore, neighbors' homes are often looted by thieves in a car as if they are moving house. People think that the neighbor is moving. Such ridiculous things are reported in the newspaper. Only then does the old man next door return to Huabiao and disappear after a few days. No one knows.

Therefore, neighbors must help each other, take care of each other, and think about each other. They must not only greet each other, but also help each other when they have something to do and help each other when they are in trouble. Only in this way can neighbor relations be handled in a more fundamental way. Of course, good social customs and inherited folk customs are also external factors in handling neighborly relations.

But no matter what, you plant flowers for a year and look at them for ten days. The flower of civilization that is a splendid neighborly relationship is far from being easy to simply talk about. It is watered by the hard work of helping each other.

Far away neighbors are not as good as close neighbors. How well neighbors get along will directly affect an individual’s life trajectory. I will share my personal experience with you:

1. Take the initiative to get close to your neighbors.

In 2013, I was transferred from the township to the county seat. Since I had relatively little money, I bought an old house in a village on the outskirts of the county seat. When I first arrived, the neighbors looked at me with repulsive eyes, seemed to be hostile, and ignored me. One day, I deliberately went to a neighbor's house to buy wine. I said that there were guests at the house and it was far away from the street. I wanted the neighbor to help me. Seeing my difficulties and sincerity, my neighbor readily gave me a few kilograms of wine without asking for my money. I came back with a lot of gratitude. I took this opportunity to invite them to my home. Over time, we became familiar with each other and got closer.

2. Helping each other is the driving force for dealing with neighbor relationships

Since getting to know them, I have taken the initiative to help them with whatever they have at home. Their impression of me has also become better. Sometimes they take the initiative to ask me to help. When they see something happening at my house, they also take the initiative to help. We all get along more harmoniously.

3. Frequently checking in, walking around, and chatting are the best direct ways to deal with the relationship between neighbors.

When you have nothing to do, you go to the east house, and when you are bored, you go to the west house. Chat with everyone, get to know each other, build friendships, and build good relationships, making them feel that they are approachable, kind and friendly people.

4. Mutual trust is the key to dealing with relations between neighbors.

Once, something happened in my hometown and I needed to go home for a few days. I couldn’t take a puppy with me.

I simply gave the door key to my neighbor and asked him to take care of it. When I came back, he not only took good care of the puppy, but also helped me look after the house. During this period, a relative came to see me but he drove him away. He said he didn't know him and thought he was a thief. From then on, the door of my house was rarely closed, and we all became each other's security guards.

5. Eating and drinking is also one of the essential ways to deal with relations between neighbors.

When you have nothing to do, you go to each other's house to eat and drink with your neighbors. This not only kills boring time, but also increases the feelings between neighbors. Why not do it?

I get along very well with my neighbors, which brings a lot of convenience to my life and work. I am very satisfied with this kind of life.