What does the man who abandoned his wife and children think?

Children and women can take the woman's surname.

Recognition means that the man wants to give mistress status. In the meantime, I don't want to hurt that woman again.

It is impossible for people who have not experienced it, since two people can have a third party. Why did you get married in the first place?

Very irrational

Sister, don't. Why did you get married?

If you want the man's affirmation, it means that the man is still responsible for the child. If you want your child to have your surname, you have to get rid of that man completely and don't expect anything from him.

In fact, in other words, no matter who you marry, your children will not take your surname. Why do you care so much about the child's surname?