What if people in the WeChat group keep scolding me?

1. First judge how long you want to stay in the group. If it is a short-term group, ignore it. If it is a long-term group, look down.

Remember, don't guess the motive.

There is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason. However, nine times out of ten, the reason for this love-hate relationship is not on you. Your pursuers may just imagine you as the owner of an unpleasant past experience. Obviously, you can't change his past or erase his motivation to scold you.

3. Let the other party reveal their motives.

The more you TAlk to others and ignore ta, the more anxious ta is. If you are anxious, your real motives will be exposed. If TA is about things, it will be more and more right. If it is for people, it is more and more for people. It's easy. Make it clear. However, the high probability is aimed at people.

4. The process of ignoring each other is also the process of exposing each other's motives. Not for you, but for everyone in the group.

Remember, don't be reasonable.

Because in reality, you will have an aura and show it again. These advantages cannot be exerted in the WeChat group. Everyone types. When you type, it is especially easy to be rhymed. The more you tell the truth, the easier it is for the other person to catch you. However, this does not mean that we should remain silent all the time. This is to avoid piecemeal.

6. If you want to win with one blow and succeed in counterattack, you must first gather people's hearts.

Take a day or two to actively communicate with other people in the group, and ignore those who scold you first. Note that this process is very important. Be sure to maintain a high-quality interaction with other people in the group for a day or two.

7. Benign interaction can't sprinkle pepper noodles, and we should focus on breakthroughs.

We can see who speaks better first. Then, actively interact with these people. For example, exchange views with them, or talk about your own views. At the same time, ignore the person who is targeting you.

8. If you have established good interaction with some people and find that their motives are directed at you, don't hesitate to fight back.

9. All you need to do when you fight back is take a heart.

Please refer to the following passage about words:

I know that these days, in fact, some people have been unfriendly to me and have been targeting me. I didn't reply either. On the surface, I don't seem to care. But actually I want to say that I really care. Not because you said me. Look, I have a family, too. When you talk about me, they feel terrible. Moreover, many people in this group are my friends. They must be uncomfortable, too. I don't want to disturb others because of your personal opinion of me. Don't say that again after I ask you.

10. The counterattack must be sent twice. Send voice first, then send text messages.

At this point, you have already made a dimension reduction blow. TA is talking about attitude and you are thinking. TA is being reasonable, while you are telling a story. TA is the perpetrator, and you are the victim. From this moment on, no matter what the other party says, they can't hurt you any more.