What you know about a person: no one can understand a person who is used to wandering and suddenly trapped in a house.

The male ticket asked me to help download his previously published journal papers. After reading it, I found that I couldn't understand it, and then I wanted to talk about my recent thoughts.

I always think a lot when I am alone.

I am surrounded by excellent people, that's right.

The first time I met him and his friends was in a restaurant, a group of people who really love to play and know how to play. I wander back and forth freely in it like a fish, and my soul is empty and confused. Yes, they are far better at managing life than I thought. It seems that those who leap and jump are admitted to graduate students such as Tsinghua of NYU University of Tokyo, and those who go to the United States to study for a doctorate and practice at Tencent Netease Cloud Deloitte, with a starting salary of more than 10,000 yuan. These people are really nice and know what is important to them.

My circle of friends is very complicated, but it also opens my eyes. I often see the advertisement of this long-haired student to help a big company recruit, the person who took the offer and scholarship happily shared it, and someone said that he was taking the IELTS test for the first time. 5 points, see exchange students from Germany, the United States and Britain sharing their scenery and cooking skills in the dormitory.

It's a big world, isn't it?

Similarly, when they choose these, they naturally give up some. The library is always full on weekends, and people who go out to play are actually studying crazily in private (for example, the two roommates who tied for first place in my department are still reciting speeches). I remember when I went to Wuhan with male ticket eleven, in order to play with me, he went back to the hotel at 10: 00 at night to read papers, write articles, draw pictures and model until 5: 00 in the morning, thus maintaining a holiday, which made me feel distressed. So are others. They pay far more than you think in maintaining their studies and club activities.

The world is too big, keep curious and keep exploring. Appetite? Lazy? These are really too simple, too common, and there are too many things to do. Don't dwell too much on them.

I am not a reasonable instigator of chicken soup for the soul, and I don't label people. I'm just sharing my mediocrity now.

After all, life needs sweetness.

two

I opened my circle of friends and saw what one of my former colleagues said. Probably only those who have experienced it can understand it. Give yourself some chicken soup once in a while to get through those difficult days. Eating alone, looking for a job alone, crying in the rented room late at night, and going to work the next day. This is the world of adults. It is not easy. Let's take a little warmth from each other. good night

three

I saw a girl commit suicide because of depression today.

It's really hard to see

It is also because I can empathize with this girl in some places.

So I wish I could see her and hug her.

Then tell her I know everything.

So maybe she can send some photos in space today.

People leave this world every day.

Respect everyone's choice and wish them happiness in this way.

But if they regret it when they want to leave

I also hope that someone can stand behind them.

Pat them on the shoulder and let them stay.

four

Unhappy life always fails to reach the ideal state, and a person feels very lonely. A few words will make you cry. I don't know why you cry so much. I hate it. I can't be a qualified mother. I am particularly dissatisfied with myself and the people around me. I can't eat well and sleep well. I'm afraid there will be no milk if I go down so low.

five

Maybe I have experienced too many disappointments, but this time I don't expect so much! How many times have you walked this road, how many places have you been, and how long have you waited? This is not something that others can understand casually.

It is these experiences that make me no longer dependent on others, make me more independent and strengthen a person's belief! I don't need anyone better than me in the future.

six

Everyone who speaks has certain emotions.

I want to tell someone, but someone doesn't understand.

seven

When you are sad, please control yourself, don't make friends, and don't talk about it.

Because no one understands their feelings, let alone empathize with them.

I feel bad, but I can't find anyone to talk to.

Tell yourself in your heart, please cheer up.

In the end, he is still such a depressed person.

I am sad.

eight

Why do you want a girlfriend? It's nothing more than being lonely for a long time. I want to find someone to accompany you, and I want someone to understand you. I'm sad, comforted and accompanied, so I'm no longer alone. You can talk to her when something goes wrong, but when you really have a girlfriend, you will find that almost all your frustrations come from her, and your efforts and gains are not proportional. Someone asked me if you were paying for the proceeds. I want to say, yes, this is not asking for anything.

nine

In the dead of night, I really wanted to talk to someone, but I didn't. I can only talk to myself alone. I think of this year's marriage. I don't know if I should continue. I'm so tired. I live my own life under the same roof. Is it necessary to continue this marriage?

ten

I miss you, but I can only say that. No one can understand the pain in my heart, no one can understand, and no one needs to understand. Just bear it silently.

eleven

I don't care how I feel in my heart. Who can understand and talk? After all, I am still alone.

twelve

for me

In fact, if you really like someone,

We can chat, walk together and snuggle occasionally.

That's enough. More like whoring.

I don't know what you are talking about, such as cuckolding, making love, pregnancy, abortion, cheating, asking for blessings, announcing that I am with you all over the world, distributing dog food in a circle of friends, and so on.

I don't even understand now

All I know is that if I can have someone I like

That's for me

I like the happiest thing with tears and blood.

What else do I ask?

My little hands can't catch anything.

I don't want to catch anything either.

I just want to be particularly tired at night.

Find a place to lean on, and it will be complete.

Knowing me is enough.

thirteen

Late at night, roommates met Duke Zhou in their dreams. I went to the balcony alone and whispered to Xiaomi and Dabai. Xiaomi stared at me sideways, as if he could understand. Do you still respond to this from time to time? Strange aunt? . ? Little fool, do you know what strange sister is saying and thinking? Dabai is much fatter than when he first came. Hey, all members of the animal world are cute when they get fat, except primates? Man, look at the delicious food of eating grass in Dabai. I've lost my appetite recently, but I'm actually hungry.

fourteen

? Psychologically speaking, if a person loves to laugh, it means that he is very sad; If a person can sleep well, it means that he is lonely? . But I don't know how to laugh recently. I haven't taken a selfie for a long time because I laugh too ugly. I couldn't sleep when I woke up before, but now I can sleep forever. Am I sick?

fifteen

I stayed up so long that I didn't understand what I was doing. I think I have something on my mind, and I want to talk to someone about my unhappiness. . . . . .

sixteen

At that time, I hated being told.

Ah! You've changed

Really?

After such a long walk.

No, it's strange to be covered in dust.

Why are you complaining like this?

If it changes, it changes.

If it doesn't suit you, just go.

I didn't stop you.

but

I didn't buy you a return ticket.

Like me,

Never found a person changed.

sadder

I always want to talk to people who understand me.

But I just want to say

I don't expect you to understand.

Yes, it's not that important.

seventeen

I'm very upset. I'll tell you one thing, because you see farther than your sister and understand the truth better. And your sister can only get to the bottom of it If she is dissatisfied with a person, she can't wait to hate him, scold him and trample him to death. This may be related to her depression.

eighteen

I know what public punishment is, that is, a person reads your words and talks about daily life.

I just threw it up myself, really. I will say it in Japanese in the future. This man is terrible. His rival in love is called the devil.

(what? You tried to put on a band-aid yourself. Please don't tell me you tried it yourself. Please _ (:з "? )_)

nineteen

But after all, we are two people. You can't just talk without practice. You just look like you know. The adult world should have self-knowledge. You must be polite. I didn't refuse this kind of thing when I didn't want to contact again, but it doesn't mean that I agreed to trouble you more clearly. I am willing to lend it to you. That's my face. Don't ask for it. That's your shame.

twenty

I don't understand how one can talk all the time! Two hours, isn't that my time? Ten thousand horses galloped by. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

twenty-one

They all say they want to be alone? But sometimes I really want to talk to someone? Want to have someone who can understand without saying anything? It's good to look at the tall building opposite. If one of them were mine, wouldn't it be great? I dream that there is a person who can keep dark!

Twenty Two

I finally understand a story that a person could not understand before. It turned out that she had been carrying it for a long time like me. These strange ideas may only be available to such people.

twenty-three

I don't know if you will have this feeling: when you come back from the game, you will recall the process of these days and feel that time has passed quickly, but you can't catch it. No matter how sad I am, I just want to be alone or talk to someone who knows me.

twenty-four

Some things are not as simple as talking about. No one can understand that a person is used to wandering and suddenly trapped in a house.

twenty-six

I am really tired. I'm too tired to walk. I really want someone I can rely on to understand. I'm with me. Too bad I didn't. I'm not really tired. Now I don't even want to go home. Why do I have to deal with my parents when I go back? Because they don't understand me, and I have worked out many problems.

I really want someone to talk about this and share some suggestions with me, but no one.

Tired

twenty-seven

What I want to say in my heart is wonderful to say from another population, like a person who really understands me like a wound, like tearing the deepest thing in my heart and tearing it back and forth in front of people.

28

Close your eyes and take a deep breath. I really want to lie in bed now, silently continue to open my eyes and listen to those lessons that I will never understand.

I really want to lose my temper, but people around me seem to be very kind to me. In fact, if I really want to speak my mind, no one will listen to me, just pretend to know each other well.

Have been short of money.

The goal I said is not impossible, but not achieved. I don't know when I became so complacent and self-indulgent.

Always in a daze, but it seems that there is really nothing on my mind.

Mourning, so mourning.

Okay, I'm going to bed. I hope I will be tomorrow. . .

Twenty-nine

At this time, I really want to have a bowl of hot noodle soup on the table, and then there is such a person who can sit down and understand my incoherent 123, objectively speaking and rhythmically sorting it out. What matters is not the result, but the process. What% $ ""&%{} is really annoying.

thirty

Is there such a person who can carefully read every conversation I have, every diary I have sent, and then read my mood? If there is such a person in your life who really cares about you, then you are lucky. Don't give up this hard-won luck casually.

Thirty two

It seems that the spiritual communication between people is really arranged by the world. This is really very important. Sometimes you can understand that this person is not suitable for communicating with you and becoming friends. You can understand that a person likes me and wants to chat and talk from the heart with one or two identical words.

thirty-three

Sometimes when I am so sad, I find no one around me, and no one can find me. Fortunately, I have a friend who will not hesitate to call me as soon as he hears anything. Thank you, Cai Ying. I will definitely remember that there was a person who kept saying in my ear when I was sad today. Actually, I just want to talk to someone. I know everything. It's okay. I'm different from others-I may be more stupid.

Thirty four

Dear, loving someone is not just talk. Sometimes people really lie to themselves and learn to understand themselves. If you really love, love well, love seriously, and accept if you don't love. It doesn't matter. We are all adults, and we are responsible for ourselves. Don't always escape, shirk and deceive yourself. In the adult world, the first element is commitment.

Thirty-five

The older you get, the harder it is for another person to understand you. I still like people I grew up with to talk about their secrets. I think communication can solve many things, but if the other party doesn't understand it, it's another matter. The relationship between the two sides can't always be the fault of the other side, and it will get tired after a long time. Since some small things can't accommodate you, why maintain this incomplete relationship? I admit that my EQ is not online, but I will understand when you say it. It's okay. I won't give my heart to anyone. It's really stupid to be hurt.

Thirty-six years old

It's been really hard recently.

I have a headache all morning.

Ordered takeout. It tastes terrible.

Take two bites and throw it away.

Who do you want to talk to? I don't know who can understand.

Maybe there are some roads in life that you can only walk alone.

Thirty seven

in fact

I am very helpless.

How much suffering have I experienced?

but

You have to bear all the pain yourself.

You can't say

Because I'm afraid my parents are worried

You can't say

Because I'm afraid my friends will make fun of me

You can't say

Because nobody can feel it.

That's who you are.

Suffer everything silently

Like a mute

There is no sound.

And then send a bunch of awkward words.

I hope someone can understand.

Finally, laugh at yourself.

Delete it.

hum

There is no such thing as empathy.

Who is not trying to live?

Thirty eight

If you have any concerns in the future, talk to someone you trust. Sometimes you are really reasonable, but if you are alone, you will find it difficult to sulk. If you communicate with someone who has a heart in mind, sometimes you can get great comfort even if you understand what the other person says.

39 years old

Actually, you don't know

Why didn't I take the initiative to find you later?

For fear of losing again.

That kind of feeling is beyond your comprehension.

I just know very well

I learned to stay calm in front of you.

Calm down and pretend to be strong.

Few people have the habit of watching movies.

I slowly learned to go to the movies alone.

forty

Every time I take my dog out, I will stare at him, and every time someone will keep talking, especially when I meet many couples and women who have been coquetry and say that I am far away from you? Even through a glass door, you are scared to retreat to the other side of the gate road. I understand that some people are afraid of dogs, just as I hate a person. I won't always say this in front of him. This is called respect.