What should I do if I fall in love with a divorced uncle but my parents are always against it?

Here I am not saying that I have a problem with divorced people, but that divorce is really not a good thing. This is my overall impression. Let’s listen to the story of a friend of the editor. A girl who dared not tell her parents that she was pregnant, because after she got a boyfriend and brought her parents to see her, her mother repeatedly told her to keep her distance, but what? She didn't listen, and then they started talking about marriage. However, her parents didn't agree because her boyfriend's home was far away. They didn't agree because of this "far", because her parents were more traditional. So getting her parents to agree is going to take a lot of work. Next, the editor will talk about what to do when your parents object to your marriage?

The situation of this friend is this. The young woman is 20 years old, and her boyfriend is four years older than her. They met and fell in love because they were introduced by friends by chance. After they came into contact with each other, After a while, they established a relationship with each other. Because the two loved each other very much, something happened that they shouldn't have happened, so they had their first time. A few months later, she found out that she hadn't come, so her aunt secretly bought a pregnancy test stick. , and found that there were two bars. She didn’t believe it, so she bought a few more boxes and decided to try again. The result was still two bars. When they were surprised and excited, they said they really had a baby, and then the two of them discussed it and said, “We have a baby.” Getting married?

It wasn’t until later, when everything came into play, that when the two families were discussing the wedding, they talked about money. Talking about money really hurt their feelings, so they later discussed the wedding gift and her parents asked for 200,000. , the man’s parents said it was a bit much, and they did not want the other party to return the gift. In Chongqing, 200,000 yuan in wedding gifts was very common. Her parents were very unhappy and used various methods to make them break up. Her father told her that other girls’ wedding gifts were 50,000 yuan. , 600,000 yuan, you are not even worth 200,000 yuan. It cost more than 200,000 yuan to raise you so big. What's wrong with 200,000 yuan? Now you can't get a dime when you get married. If I had known, it would be better not to have you, she My heart was broken by my father's words.

Love is beautiful, but once it comes to money issues, all the troubles will follow. When you listen to other people's stories, you have your own insights. Falling in love is always beautiful, but when it comes to marriage, many lovers are abruptly pulled back to reality. In real life, there are not a few people like her parents who interfere in their children's marriage, so why are her parents like this? What about forcing them to break up unreasonably? I think it should be that parents think that love should be control and filial piety should be obedience. Director Ang Lee said that children should be treated as independent. They don’t need children to be filial to themselves. They only need them to love me. Children are all because of their parents. But it does not belong to the parents.