How to communicate with my daughter? How to communicate with your daughter

1, being good at listening is the most basic quality for parents to their children. If you can understand what the child means when listening to him, and you can get the message, and at the same time you can feel the child's mind and respond, which shows that you have mastered the essentials of listening, then communication with the child will be more effective.

2. Listen more and talk less, and then talk after listening. It often happens that the mother is eager to express her opinion before the child has finished speaking, and the impression given to her daughter becomes "What can I say if she doesn't listen to me anyway?" In this way, it is difficult to communicate again. Adolescent children are impulsive, and sometimes their daughters will say something harsh or even sad to their mothers. In fact, she will regret it later, and her mother has heard her say, "I couldn't control myself at that time." Mom should understand.

3. Communicate with children more, integrate into their world, understand empathy, and the most important thing is to keep up with their footsteps. Nowadays, parents are under great pressure at work, especially when they are fathers, and they have less time to contact with their children. As parents, we should spend more time with our children, understand their life, hobbies, joys and sorrows, communicate with them with a normal heart and let them open their hearts.

4, harmonious relationship, create a conversation atmosphere. Some parents seldom exchange ideas with their children, and severely reprimand their children after problems arise. Over time, the emotional distance with children has gradually widened. Therefore, parents should create a harmonious atmosphere when talking with their children, such as telling jokes and happy things, which will unconsciously close the distance with their children and the communication effect will be much better.

5. Give children more independent choices. For example, children can make their own decisions about some small things in life. If they choose improperly, parents can give advice, but in the end, they should respect their wishes and hold them responsible for their actions. When a child encounters a problem, he will also know that his parents will always stand by him, on the one hand, from their respect and understanding, on the other hand, they can get guidance and help from their parents when they make mistakes. This state is great for children. When children have a positive attitude towards growth, parent-child communication will definitely become smoother.

6. Cultivate children according to their characteristics. No matter how busy their parents are now, they should take their children's education seriously. They should not only attach importance to material giving, but also carry out emotional education. Parents usually observe their children's personality characteristics and guide their children to develop their strengths through some parent-child activities.