What should a boy do when he brings his girlfriend home to meet his family for the first time?

I saw a message when I brushed the video the day before yesterday, and I still felt a lot after reading the content. The video shows that a boy from Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province brought his girlfriend home and was valued by his family. Ms. Jiang (the boy's sister) and her mother cleaned the house, prepared enough fruit and cooked a big table.

Ms. Jiang said, "Even the legs of the table were tied by her mother with her own shoes." The whole process took more than ten hours, from last night to early morning, I got up early to buy food and cooked ten dishes, which represented perfection. The whole family, including my brother and girlfriend, are very happy. "Being valued by boys' families, the happiness of girls' hearts must be full.

Girls have such treatment, boys' families must have contributed, but boys must have made full preparations for their girlfriends' "debut". So what should a boy do when he brings his girlfriend home to meet his family for the first time? Let me give my opinion.

First, communicate with your family in advance.

Bringing your girlfriend home to meet your parents is definitely something that needs to be communicated with your family in advance, usually two or three days in advance to facilitate family preparation. For example, the boy in the above story "reported" to his family in advance, and finally achieved such good results.

Telling family members in advance can better present each other with a clean and tidy living environment, adjust their mentality to facilitate communication between the two sides, and make a fuss about many details, so that girls can have a good impression on boys' families.

Second, tell your girlfriend and family about their hobbies.

What I fear most in the process of communication is "chatting", which will make both sides uncomfortable. Tell each other some hobbies in advance, so that you can have a clear goal in the process of chatting and not know what to say. * * * The same hobby will make each other go in quickly and get familiar with each other more easily.

I remember visiting my cousin's house for the first time. It was an embarrassing situation. A few people just sat there, not knowing what to say. At best, they just smiled at each other. Afterwards, my cousin was criticized by his uncle and his girlfriend. Fortunately, he finally got married.

Third, always accompany your girlfriend and give her enough sense of security.

When a person walks into a strange environment, her heart must be tense. People and things in front of her have never met. At this time, she would like her boyfriend to accompany her and give her enough courage to stay in this environment.

My girlfriend came to my house for the first time and was very nervous, even though I had cheered her up before. She still stutters when communicating with my parents, and even dares not ask the location of the bathroom at home, so I always accompany her and "solve problems" for her. When she left, she specially thanked me for my company, which made her feel safe enough.

In addition, as a boy, you can also prepare gifts for both parties in advance. After all, a good start is also important. Generally speaking, it is mainly in these aspects that you will once again "add bricks and tiles" to your love if you do these jobs well.

Of course, it is necessary to remind friends here that when we meet for the first time, don't talk too much about topics involving each other's privacy, such as each other's income and previous emotional experiences.

Love is between two people, and we need each other's hearts. The girl is willing to go home with the boy, which shows that she loves the boy deeply, and the boy thinks of the girl in every detail, which is also a manifestation of love.