Gu Jia sold his house to pay off his debts, but Lin Ran left: What's the difference between an original match and a "lover"?

After destroying other people's families, Lin Youyou not only didn't get any punishment, but escaped after Xu Huanshan went to prison and got away with it.

Correspondingly, it is Gu Jia.

The imaginary scene of hitting the face did not appear. After the blue fireworks accident, it was Gu Jia who calmly handled everything and even sold the house as the severance payment of the company.

When she visited Xu Huanshan in prison, she also comforted the other party and said: As long as you are in a good mood, you can start all over again.

I have to say that this ending is unacceptable. Compared with Gu Jia, Lin Youyou, as a "mistress", is like a winner in life and has nothing to lose.

In fact, when you think about it, real life is sometimes so cruel. In an unbalanced marriage, the original collocation is the easiest to soften. Not their mother, but they have too many concerns.

The original game was dragged down by love rat, but Xiaosan got away with it. Similar cases abound in real life.

15 years ago, Chen Xian married Chen Young who had nothing and started from scratch with him.

She knew that she didn't have much ability and couldn't help Chen Young in her career, so she had to put her family first and try her best to make her husband have no worries.

At that time, Yan Chen was moved, and she even said that she would treat her for a lifetime.

But his life is too short. When his career improved slightly, he changed his mind and fell in love with another woman. For that woman, he decisively divorced his wife, even his teenage son.

In the face of her husband's betrayal, Chen Xian has pain in his heart and even more hatred. At that time, she vowed to stay away from such a man in her life.

But soon after the divorce, Chen Young had an accident, lying in a hospital bed, and he may never get up again.

The woman outside marriage, seeing Yan Chen become like this, did not even care about anything, and broke up directly. Instead, Chen Xian came to see him frequently with his children and arranged a nanny for him to take care of his food, clothing, housing and transportation in the hospital.

Many people think that Chen Xian is a virgin, and being kind to a man who betrays himself is cruel to himself.

But for Chen Xian, Yan Chen is sorry for herself, and she is also the father of the child. Apart from betraying his marriage, he has been doing his father's job well. Furthermore, parents are the teachers of their children and have the responsibility to set an example. She doesn't want to train her children to be cold-blooded, regardless of her father.

Chen Young, lying in a hospital bed, really regrets now. He began to pray for Chen Xian to forgive him, hoping that the two could get back together.

Although Chen Xian is kind, it doesn't mean that she will forgive her ex-husband. Between two people, she doesn't want to have anything to do with each other except children.

Many people ask, what is the difference between an original match and a lover? In fact, as long as you observe with your eyes and feel with your heart, you can understand that lovers are far worse than before. The comparison here does not refer to external conditions such as appearance, but to a woman's heart and character.

For Xu Huanshan, the original Gu Jia was the support for him to go all the way, and it was enough to be on a par with him. When he was down and out, she was still willing to give him some shade to shelter him from the wind and rain. This kind of atmosphere is completely incomparable to lover Lin.

Lin Youyou may be very attractive in men's eyes. But that charm is only temporary, and sooner or later it will be lost with the years. Compared with Gu Jia, she is a fragile dodder flower and needs a man to survive. She is also a frog in the well without knowledge. She only has love and money interests in her mind, and there is no pattern at all.

Art comes from life, and in real life, the difference between the original match and the lover is also here.

The original match and husband care about their emotional and family stability. What she wants is the harmony and tranquility of a family and the happiness and warmth of her future life. Even if the road is doomed to be bumpy, she will not be afraid, but will face it bravely.

But lovers are not necessarily. They themselves come for short-term money and fame, and lack the courage to suffer with men. When men are in trouble, she is the first to leave.