"Your brother is ill and needs your bone marrow." What should I do when my parents abandon me?

People will live in a family when they are born, and the family is also the most important carrier of people's life. Everyone plays a different role in the family. According to everyone's different roles, life gives everyone different responsibilities. Some of these responsibilities are taking responsibility, some are paying, and some are just blindly pursuing returns.

For example, in a family, the responsibility of parents is to pay and do all kinds of things for their children every day. Most parents are like this, but a few parents have done irresponsible things. Even some parents gave birth to a child, but they were unwilling to raise her, which caused great harm to the child's body and mind, which nothing can make up for.

For children, if they meet such parents, they may be a little unacceptable at first, but as time goes by, their emotional numbness makes them gradually lose confidence in this kind of affection. Even if one day, if parents still want to find this kind of affection, the abandoned child can't turn back. After all, no matter who it is, it is more sad than death.

However, if one day you meet such a parent and she asks you for help, what choice will you make? Will you remember the person who gave birth to your kindness and repay them? I believe everyone will have their own different choices. In fact, no matter what choice they make, people will give them tolerance and understanding. After all, they are abandoned children.

Zhang Xiaorong is the second child in the family. She has an elder sister above and a younger brother below, but if she meets her elder sister or younger brother in the street, she won't even recognize her face because they haven't seen each other for more than 20 years. Why hasn't the family seen each other for more than 20 years? Because when Zhang Xiaorong was only three years old, she was sent to someone else's home by her parents, and her biological parents never contacted her again.

In the first few years, she looked forward to whether her biological parents could contact her every day, and she also made trouble every day, thinking that it was not her biological parents' fault. Even a few times, Zhang Xiaorong sneaked out to find her biological parents, but the place where she was sent out was too far away, and she was weak and had no one to rely on. She can't find her old home.

Time is like this, day by day, and more than 20 years have passed in an instant. Zhang Xiaorong didn't care much about his old home. Even when he mentioned it, there was no more expression on his face, just a little broken memory in his heart. Recently, however, this tranquility has been broken, because I haven't contacted my biological parents for more than 20 years. Today, I suddenly contacted myself. The first sentence at the beginning was "My brother is ill and needs your bone marrow".

In fact, for many people who have never been parents, it is also very angry to see this. Although parents themselves may not be able to raise their children well because of life or other reasons, what they should not do is to abandon their children. For children, whether they are poor or rich, family is their warm harbor. As the saying goes, dogs don't think their families are poor, but if they are abandoned, their inner harm is absolutely unparalleled.

In the past, there was only one beautiful thought left in Zhang Xiaorong's mind, that is, if his biological parents could find themselves and give a reasonable explanation, he might forgive them for being soft-hearted, but he didn't expect to wait for more than 20 years. Zhang Xiaorong's answer is also very firm: "Impossible, where were you when I needed you?"

Seeing Zhang Xiaorong's answer, her biological parents actually swore. I said how hard it was to have her. Now I just need her to come back and help my brother, but I didn't expect to refuse. However, Zhang Xiaorong asked, why did she send her out as soon as she was born, and there was no contact for so many years?

Her biological parents sent her out after receiving it. The main reason is that her family life is difficult and she can't afford to raise three children. At that time, her sister was old and her brother was only a few months old. Therefore, Zhang Xiaorong was sent after comprehensive consideration. This result is absolutely unacceptable to Zhang Xiaorong. After all, even if it has been sent out for so many years, there is no contact. I really can't understand it. Now it's easy to contact and let myself donate bone marrow.

An abandoned child will definitely lack physical and mental growth, especially after knowing that he is an abandoned child. After all, she once had a happy family, but after being abandoned, she will become a wandering child. Even if there is an adoptive family, it is far less than family of origin's affection, which is irretrievable anyway.

Zhang Xiaorong always has some resentment in her heart, because even if she gives up on herself because of her helplessness in life, if her biological parents still miss her for so many years, she should come and see from time to time to at least satisfy some of her psychological defects, but she doesn't even have a phone call for so many years.

Over the years, Zhang Xiaorong has been looking forward to it, looking forward to it, but he didn't look forward to it after all. However, what he finally expected was that his biological parents would ask for help. This also directly makes Zhang Xiaorong feel that the boundary between her and her biological parents has been completely drawn, and no matter what happens in the future, she won't have any intersection with them.

Seeing her daughter unwilling to help her younger brother, Zhang Xiaorong's biological parents swore and even threatened to find the news media to expose her. Zhang Xiaorong, however, has already seen this of his biological parents. She had to choose to leave and go to a city where no one could find herself, where she could live in peace and stability.

In fact, many parents always find various excuses to abandon their children, which is actually a very irresponsible practice. In the face of such irresponsible parents, the best way for children is to choose to avoid, otherwise, it will only make such parents more and more appetizing.

In life, everyone and every family will encounter all kinds of difficulties and problems, but even in the face of greater difficulties and problems, we can't choose not to abandon, not to abandon, not to give up, which will make every family more United and make every family's affection more stable.

In fact, most parents are selfless to their children, and very few parents always ask their children to repay themselves too much. It is rare to kidnap one's own children morally like this. In any case, parents are great to their children and represent selfless dedication.

The so-called kindness is not as great as kindness. Although the biological parents gave birth to themselves, it was the adoptive parents who really brought them up. Therefore, for abandoned children, we should thank the adoptive parents, but if the biological parents sincerely apologize to themselves, they can be forgiven. After all, not everyone can withstand the pressure of life.

The so-called bystanders are clear, but the authorities are confused. If it weren't for the protagonist in the story, no one might be able to experience all kinds of feelings personally. People will face all kinds of problems in their life, but family affection is often the most difficult choice. What parents need to do is protect their children, and what children need to do is repay their parents' kindness.