Why do babies prefer being with grandma to being with mom?

I take maternity leave until my son goes to work for five months. I gave him all the time except work. I didn't go out to play, didn't attend the dinner, and went home on time after work without any delay ... as long as I was here, he didn't want anyone but me. Many people say that I live without myself. How can this happen? Whether you have yourself or not depends on whether you enjoy the process. I enjoy it, and he is a part of my life. In my opinion, children grow up only once. Parents should do their best when he needs you and learn to let go when he grows up without you. Children are their own, not grandparents'. When children grow up and leave themselves, it is the best state for parents not to regret it. Now that my son is older, he doesn't need to attend many times, and he also has a lot of leisure time to do what he likes. ...

That's because my grandmother brought too much. My daughter and my mother helped me take her children to work until she was two years old. It's really clingy Now that I'm three years old, I have to hug someone when I go to the bathroom, or I'll move a small stool and sit there and watch you. My family can't see who's coming. When I came, I felt that my mother was going to work again. I will confirm it many times every day, and I will rest assured that my mother will not go to work.

Unless the elderly are particularly energetic, those who are willing to follow the elderly are either left behind or their parents are careless.

Careful parents, even if they only accompany their children at night and weekends, children will choose their parents.

We have to admit that the world is progressing and the energy of the elderly is declining. In addition to the particularly awesome old people, there are several old people who can arrange all kinds of interesting activities for their children and compensate them for playing all kinds of outdoor activities that consume physical strength.

Science and technology museums, museums, libraries, archives, planning centers, planetariums and other places, at first glance, are still mostly young parents.

Most of them are young parents who take their children over mountains and mountains.

Older people will not learn more interesting and better when they talk about picture books.

Wait a minute.

Of course, if parents don't care, then don't think about it. Instead of thinking that children are not close to you, think about how much money you spend with them.

There is something wrong with this proposition. I'm not sure who the child wants to be with:

Reason 1: In infancy, mothers have to work, have less contact with children, and grandmothers take more care of them. Of course, they prefer to be with grandma.

Reason 2: If mom wants to be with grandma because of her bad personality, mom needs to reflect on herself.

No child is born without loving his mother, and every reason has its consequences.

Hello, the baby likes to be with grandma for a reason. Maybe the baby grew up with his grandmother and had less contact with his mother. For example, left-behind children rely more on their grandmothers. Another possibility is that although he grew up with his mother, his mother was stricter and his grandmother spoiled him more, so he would think that her was closer.

Guide him slowly, let him know that you are kissing him, buy him something to eat and play with, so it is easy to close the distance with him.

5-6 years old will not be with the elderly, children are willing to be with their parents.