How did you change from "current" to "former"?

In fact, in retrospect, it seems that I broke up on my own initiative. Maybe it's because I'm an insecure person. Once there is a problem in my relationship, my first thought is to escape. I will be very calm and calm, but the other person doesn't seem to want to deal with the problem calmly with me. Then I will feel very sad and want to break up after I feel sad. At this point, I turned myself into my predecessor.

As for the problems, most of them are similar. I don't like emotional stress If the other person keeps asking me about work, marriage and so on, I will feel very stressed. Or if the other person keeps sticking to me and doesn't let me have personal space, I will feel stressed. This kind of pressure will make me feel suffocated, so I will want to break up.

I think this may be my personal problem. I can't calm down and deal with this problem with each other, and I can't force myself to accept it passively. When you break up, you will be particularly determined, leaving no room, and directly become your predecessor.