My husband is very kind to her husband's family. What should I do?

I wonder how good it is. If I give some money to my family occasionally, I can go home and have a look. I will also help my brothers and sisters. I think it's ok. Within a suitable range, it won't make my wife feel any discomfort. It is ok to take care of my family and parents.

Many boys take care of their families too much, which affects family harmony. Give their money to their parents, brothers and sisters. When you want to buy a house, you will be short of money. So if that's the case, you should talk to him and say that you can understand his idea of helping the family, but only if we have a good life. I can spare some money to help your family. But compared with money, I think you should provide them with jobs that can make a living. It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. It is better to distribute the money earned by yourself.

Don't quarrel with him because of this, and don't think that his family is bottomless. At first you liked this person and married this person. He must have many advantages. You live with him, not their home. Everything can be discussed in detail. I believe that a husband who understands your mind will understand your good intentions.

I have also seen husbands who only support their families and completely ignore their wives. When his wife was pregnant and had a bad temper, he took his parents and brother's children home. Children make a hullabaloo about all day, and parents only think that it is not a big problem for children to make a hullabaloo about. I also felt that my daughter-in-law was too delicate, so I reflected this to my husband. Husband will only tell her to be patient, and then directly blame his wife. The angry wife went to the hospital in a rage and chose abortion and divorce.

Therefore, what the husband does is also very important. We should understand and have our own attitude.