Write a composition about "experienced people are more likely to succeed"

I once heard a story. Once upon a time, a group of frogs organized a climbing competition. The end of the game is: the top of a very high iron tower. A group of frogs watched the game around the tower and cheered them on.

The game has already started. To tell the truth, no one among the frogs believes that these little frogs will reach the top of the tower. They are all saying, "This is too difficult! They certainly can't reach the top of the tower! " "They will never succeed, the tower is too high!"

Hearing this, except for the cheerful frogs, one frog after another began to lose heart. The frogs continued to shout, "This is too difficult! Nobody can climb to the top of the tower! " More and more frogs are tired and quit the competition. But one frog is still climbing higher and higher, and has no intention of giving up. Finally, all the other frogs dropped out of the competition, except one frog, who made great efforts and finally became the only winner who climbed to the top of the tower.

Naturally, all the other frogs want to know how it succeeded. A frog ran up to the winner and asked him how he had such great strength to climb the whole distance. It found that frogs are deaf!

Many times, we are afraid that we are not smart enough and think that all failures are due to clumsiness. So, we try to prove ourselves smart, try to make all kinds of real and fastest reactions, and listen to what others say about us. But we don't know that we are smart, because when our ears are too sensitive, we can't hear our inner voice. In fact, the key to success is to follow our innermost voice after we have a clear goal.

Tell me about me. When I entered the university campus with infinite vision, I also had a lot of plans for the future. I had to pass CET-4 and CET-6 and study hard for postgraduate entrance examination ... Just out of the stressful environment of senior three, I felt that my freshman day was too leisurely. It seems that I should relax myself, so it doesn't matter, there is still so long time to prepare for CET-4 and postgraduate entrance examination. I put all my ideals behind me and spent all my spare time every day for recreation, so I spent a semester. It was not until after the final exam that I found out how much worse I was than others. I didn't pass the second grade and the fourth grade. Looking at the smiles on the faces of the students who tried to pass these exams in my class, only I know how sorry I am at this time. I hope it is not too late to wake up. When I was a sophomore, I applied for the National Computer Grade II, and I set myself a goal. I have to pass! Burn one's bridges to be reborn! With a goal, I have motivation. Although there is no need to study at night in the class, I insist on studying at night every day and prepare for the exam carefully. I don't know how many books I read, and finally I passed the exam smoothly. With this experience, I cherish my present study life more, and finally understand the taste of failure and the joy of success. Most importantly, I have goals and motivation! Now I have set a new near-term goal for myself, passing Band 4! After passing CET-4, I will pass CET-6, so I can't spend my college life like a freshman.

If you don't know your direction, you will be cautious and hesitant. Many people wander aimlessly like sleepwalkers all their lives. They are not allowed to live according to the familiar "old routine" every day, and never ask themselves, "What am I going to do in my life?" They are not sure what they have done, because they lack goals.

So is life. For people without goals, the passage of time only means the growth of age and can only be repeated day after day. Some people say that no matter how old a person is now, his real journey of life must not start from the day he sets a goal. The old days were just spinning around.

Many people want to change their situation, but few people turn their desire to change their situation into clear and definite goals and fight for them. As a result, their desire is only desire.

Success is only a choice at the beginning. What kind of goals you choose will lead to what kind of life. Why do most people fail? Only 5% people can really complete their plans, and most people either give up their goals or become idle dreams.

Goals are not only the starting point of our success, but also the standard to measure our success. So, how to set goals?

You should have an aim in life, or your efforts will be in vain. The effectiveness of the goal must meet the following five conditions: concrete; Quantifiable; Capable of being achieved; Focus on results; There is a time limit. Among them, the core conditions can be summarized as two: one is quantification and the other is time limit.

Quantization, first, refers to the concretization of numbers, so you must set accurate numbers. For example, the income you want to achieve in three years can be quantified as 500,000 yuan, 6,543.8+0,000 yuan, 6,543.8+0.5 million yuan and other specific figures. Second, it refers to morphological indexation, that is, if the determined goal cannot be directly described by a certain number, it must be further decomposed and all of it must be shown.

Time limit refers to the goal you set, and there must be a clear time limit, which can be specific to a certain year or month. A goal without a time limit is not a valid goal. You may easily find excuses for procrastination, so that the day when your goal is achieved becomes far away.

However, many people also set goals, but he didn't succeed. Why?

Every day, every month, and every year, ask yourself: Have I reached my goal? Without careful care and management, the goal cannot bear the fruit of success.

If you want to manage your goal effectively, you can break down the overall goal into an easy-to-remember goal and imagine your goal as a pyramid. The top of the tower is your life goal, and everything you set and do to achieve it must point to your life goal. The pyramid consists of five layers, the top layer is the core, and this layer contains your life goals. Each layer below is a smaller goal to achieve the larger goal of the upper layer.

People have a tendency that once their goals are achieved, they will have a feeling of venting, stop trying and then sit down and enjoy success. An enterprising person should set a new goal for himself after reaching his goal. But don't wait until you reach a goal before you set a new goal. Instead, you should always keep a goal in his mind. After you finish a goal, you will know what the next goal is and the direction to move on.

Constantly setting new goals is a process of self-challenge and continuous progress. A person needs to constantly set new goals for himself, and constantly improve himself and improve himself under the encouragement of new goals. The goals set by people generally have a long-term goal, that is, to have a general and general goal in mind. This long-term goal should be achieved in stages. Stage objectives must be specific, clear and operational. People can't expect to become billionaires at once, but when you achieve the goal of 654.38+million, the goal of billionaires is not fantasy and fantasy. Self-confidence is gradually established on the basis of this continuous realization of stage goals.