What should I do if I meet someone who is in love but unwilling to give?

You should let TA learn to change herself and help TA gradually get out of her inner predicament.

You may feel extremely confused about a relationship, but you can't feel the love of the other person when you are in love. They habitually escape and make excuses. Whenever you want to talk about the true feelings of both sides, or talk about this relationship, they will be evasive and cringe. TA may use various methods to keep the distance between you, such as being angry, criticizing and picky. Finally, you will feel lonely, depressed, insignificant or rejected.

If you meet such an object, TA may be troubled by "emotional incompetence", and the most well-known symptom of incompetence is "love incompetence", but it is actually wider than love incompetence. Its definition is that a person is not interested in or at a loss for deep love or other deep feelings that need to communicate with each other.

When you meet such a partner, you need to make it clear that you have two choices-give up or continue. If you feel that you can't get what you want in this relationship, you can choose to leave; If you think you love TA enough, and the other person shows signs of opening up, or it's just possible, you can stay with him quietly. But no matter how you choose, don't change TA without authorization. Love incompetence can be changed, they can completely enter a closer relationship, but you can't change anyone, and the final change can only be made by yourself.

The more correct way is to never attack each other from your own point of view and force TA before solving the problem. In fact, in the hearts of people who have no ability to love, there are often some hidden problems about trust and fear, which make them unable to accept love calmly. At least at this stage, they are not ready to enter a serious relationship. Put down your expectations for a while and at least give them a comfortable breathing space. Only in this way can they get rid of those old feelings one day.