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Sister-in-law often complains that her mother-in-law is too eccentric. What should I do?

Sister-in-law often complains that her mother-in-law is too eccentric. What should I do?

My sister-in-law Yun Jie is a warm-hearted person, but there are always some narrow-minded women. Back to her mother-in-law every year, Yun Jie always complains. Every time I go to her house, whenever something stands up, I won't resist:

"Our mother-in-law, she doesn't know good or bad. We gave her big bags and small bags, and how much money we gave her, but she didn't seem to see it. She just leaned over to the second son, as if the eldest son had come. "

"You see the second one, a greasy face, a natural eunuch demeanor, sweet words, but empty-handed. His mother only felt that his son couldn't live, as if all our money had been blown away by the wind ... "She kept complaining.

My mother-in-law has three sons. The eldest son is Sister Yun's husband, and my husband is the third.

Sister Yun has "convulsion", which is intermittent, but it can last for one year until the next cycle. Since I took her to Buddhism, her "convulsions" have decreased, but I know she forced her to go back. So our two sisters-in-law usually walk more.

Sister Yun said: Buddha said that everything is karma, and our mother-in-law and I are both bad karma.

I said: The Buddha also said that everything is "cause and effect". From the heart, are we really filial to our parents-in-law? Have we planted a good marriage of filial piety with sincerity?

Sister Yun and I recalled the Spring Festival at my mother-in-law's house last year-

New year's day. At the big gathering of brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters are talking loudly, boasting freely and laughing heartily. The father-in-law who was squeezed in the corner of the sofa watched TV silently, and the old woman with apron leaned against the door frame and smiled at the child stupidly.

Children and grandchildren sit around the table, with messy cups and plates and rotten drinks. People only found that her mother-in-law was still shuttling back and forth in a bowl, holding it for her children and grandchildren in front of the waiter:

"Mom, come and eat." Although the mother-in-law was forced to sit down by the child, she just grabbed the leftovers and her teeth were weak. These ten plates and eight plates really don't have their own delicious food.

After a full meal, the sons sat around rubbing hemp, and the mother-in-law served tea and dried fruits. The sons calmed down and seemed to have a chance to nag: "The eldest smokes less, the second wears more clothes, and the third …" The sons pushed their mother: Go to rest and don't worry about us.

My mother-in-law had to retreat to her own place: the kitchen. And the kitchen was also occupied by our three sisters-in-law: one washed dishes, one poured water and the other handed things back and forth. The works here are flowing, the words are hot and eager, and the three women are close. The mother-in-law wanted to intervene, and the daughter-in-law repeatedly said, go, go, you are not needed here.

The old lady was in a daze when suddenly a small hand reached out from behind and sent a piece of toffee to grandma's mouth ... Before the old lady turned around, the little figure disappeared long ago, looking like a second child. The child is as narrow-minded as his father.

New year's day is so busy and lively. Everyone agreed to come back next year, and they will never forget the last important ceremony to pay tribute to their parents:

Boss 5000, our family 4000, the second thinks he is worthless and can only give 2000. ...

Bye. See you next year.

The mighty procession left, and the crowded room without feet was empty and cold. Nothing seems to have happened, only the smell of toffee in the old lady's mouth, sweet and ecstasy, which lingers for a long time.

Who put a piece of candy in grandma's mouth? Who will think so much about grandma except the second child?

Sister Yun said: In fact, this is really the case. Mother-in-law always thinks that her second son is filial, because he will sweet talk and kiss her ass. Maybe we will become the root of this short ear when we get old?

I said, "My second child runs home every few days. How many times have you been there a year? "

In fact, Sister Yun also knows that under normal circumstances, she won't go back to her mother-in-law's house. It is also rare for a husband to see his parents for a few months, throw a few tickets and leave as soon as his ass gets hot.

"All virtues and filial piety are the first. It is easy to honor parents' money, but difficult to honor parents. Let's learn Buddhism from filial piety, "I said to Sister Yun.

Author: Ask your heart

Editor: Rainbow in the West

The above content only represents the author's personal understanding of Buddhism, and all legal meanings are subject to Buddhism. )