Why do you cry when you see your relatives?

The night after the wedding, one of the groomsmen suddenly said, let me ask you a question. Why did your parents cry when they saw you off in the car this morning? My wife is also like this, crying like a crybaby. (The best man is married)

Actually, I'm not surprised at this question. Before I held my own wedding, I brushed the wedding videos of various bloggers, and saw that some collapsed and cried, some hid their faces, some cried like pear blossoms, and some cried like stars. I didn't understand at the time. What a happy thing! My parents are looking forward to my marriage all day, and I can't wait to leave them at once, so I don't want them to take care of me every day. I think my wedding day should be full of laughter.

As it turns out, it's really naive. On the wedding day, when everyone's focus is on your home, all emotions will be amplified.

Tell me how I can not collapse. ...

It was when my husband carried me to the car and my mother helped me put on my shoes. I felt my lips tremble when I watched her put on her shoes. Then my mother got up, and I saw her eyes were red. When she hugged me, she murmured, "we are little babies ... at this time, my tears could not help, but I patted my mother and said, what's the matter?" Don't cry, take a picture.

Then my father came to hug me. At this time, I cried completely, because my stupid father had tears in his eyes.

As a daughter, even if I can pretend to be strong in front of my mother, I will still expose my vulnerability in front of my father. Perhaps, subconsciously, my father will always be the harbor that can give me a sense of security and let my daughter coquetry at will. ...

I'm already in tears when I write this. Maybe that's what weddings are all about. Some details, some emotional expressions that can be suppressed in daily life but can't be controlled that day, can be remembered for a lifetime!