My brother earns a million a year and spends 800,000 to buy a car, but he doesn’t help his brother with the down payment. Is family love worthless?

From a moral perspective or from the perspective of their respective families, there is really no way to discuss this matter. Now that the elder brother is rich, should he buy a house and a car for his younger brother for free? It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish, so I think the elder brother can help the younger brother appropriately or give some guidance, but the specific behavior and life of the younger brother still have to depend on himself. Just because you are an older brother, you cannot directly hand over your money to your younger brother so that he can buy a house. My brother has his own plans, and he will also have his own life. If a younger brother encounters such behavior and thinks that his older brother is capable and wants to get something for nothing, is such behavior really good? Therefore, we cannot kidnap family ties at this time. Sometimes such emotional kidnapping is also very painful.

My brother also has his own family, and he will also get married and have children. Everyone wants to make their lives better, so will the elder brother also beg his younger brother to help him and give him hundreds of thousands to buy things? Therefore, the mentality of getting something for nothing is not enough. You must work yourself to earn that profit. Money can help, but it is not like giving money directly to you without considering your own living conditions.

My brother also wants to make his life better, so he will work hard on his own. My brother and sister-in-law have worked hard together for a long time. Others want to live a better life for themselves, but they have to give money to their younger brother. So why don’t you transfer the money yourself to support yourself and live a better life? Therefore, if you have a lazy mentality and beg others to pity you, or if others give charity to you, you really can't help such people, and you should even stay away from them in the future.

Such people are not positive in their thinking and life, and will not be positive in the future. Moreover, they will add some burdens to people like my brother, so sometimes the so-called moral kidnapping is really disturbing. I find it annoying. You work hard and you get what you get. Other extra free ideas are really unrealistic.