Dry goods sharing! This is the right way to wean, so put it away.

Recently, I saw the mothers in the treasure mother group asking how to wean. I have heard some remarks about weaning before, saying that weaning is the second separation between the baby and the mother. This process is very hard. "The baby cries and the mother hurts." The baby cries because she can't eat breast milk, and milk addiction makes her cry. Mom hurts because she loves her baby, and the milk rises very painfully. There are too many such words.

In a blink of an eye, the baby is one year old, and it's time to wean. I am also worried about whether "the baby cries and the mother hurts" when weaning. Why? 10 months ago, the baby never drank the milk from the bottle, only kissed it, and basically slept with the milk every time. Can such a breast-feeding baby not worry me? So I read all kinds of articles about weaning methods to see how others broke it, hoping to find a way from it. They all have the help of their parents, but I take care of the baby alone. Without the help of parents, my husband is busy at work, and only when he comes back from work can he take care of the baby, and nothing else can be expected. Copying their methods is not very effective. Different babies from different families should be taught in accordance with their aptitude. So I decided to do it my own way.

First, the conditions of weaning: the mother's breast milk has decreased, and the baby's nutrition can't keep up.

When the mother feels that the breast milk is getting less and less, the doctor says that the baby's nutrition can't keep up and the growth is slow. At this time, you can start weaning the baby. When the baby 10 month old, she felt that her breast milk had decreased, so she took the baby to the community hospital for physical examination. Sure enough, the doctor said that my baby's height and weight were not up to standard. The doctor asked me if my breast milk couldn't keep up. If so, I can wean myself and drink milk powder.

Second, gradually reduce the number of pro-feeding, so that the baby can adapt to the taste of milk powder before weaning.

Because the baby doesn't drink milk powder, he has to feed himself, so I bought a small can of milk powder and gave him 30ml of milk each time to let him adapt slowly. At first he refused. As soon as he smelled the milk powder, he pursed his mouth and pushed the bottle away. He can play with the bottle, but he just doesn't drink milk. In order to adapt him to the taste of milk powder, I gradually reduced the number of pro-feeding and the amount of complementary food during the day. When he was hungry, I gave him the bottle. I still hated it, but because I was hungry, I drank and played, and I slowly accepted it. At the same time, every time I give my baby a bottle, I will tell him, "The baby has grown up. When you are hungry, drink the milk from the bottle." First 30 ml, then 60 ml, then 90 ml ... After more than a month of wits, the baby finally stopped resisting milk powder, and now he can drink 200ml at a time.

Third, the mother must be decisive and can't delay.

Although the baby is almost one year old, he still needs to drink night milk every night, and he still wants me to kiss him and put him to sleep. According to the success of the first two steps, this third step will not be too much trouble. At this point, it's time for the father to play a role. In the past, the child's father put him to sleep, and he did not reject it. But I take him to bed most of the time. If I don't kiss him here, he will make trouble. If I am not here, he will drink the bottle and sleep peacefully with his father. If you wake up hungry at night, make him another bottle of milk. It was a little noisy at first, but with the comfort of my father, it will soon be all right. After two nights, the baby gave up night milk.

Fourth, wean during the day, drink whole milk powder, eat complementary food, and do not eat breast milk.

Because of the above three steps, the milk during the day is easier to break and not too hard. Now the baby can drink milk powder and eat complementary food, and I don't have to worry about starving him. I can safely reduce the number of pro-feeding day by day, once the first day, twice the second day and three times the third day ... Finally, I stopped pro-feeding. In the process, I also told the baby repeatedly: "The baby has grown up, and all hungry babies will drink milk from the bottle in the future." Although he is still young, he talks too much and will naturally understand.

I just follow these four steps to help my baby cut off breast milk easily. For babies with weaning difficulties, friends can learn from them if they feel useful.

In addition, in the process of weaning, you need to pay attention to the following items:

1, when the mother's milk rises, be sure to suck it out with a breast pump to avoid doing heavy work and holding the baby. A little carelessness may lead to breast agglomeration, which in turn may lead to breast inflammation and Ma Bao's high fever.

2. Mom remembers to prepare milk-returning food, such as barley tea. Drink a little milk every day, and the secretion will naturally decrease.

3, the baby is sick, don't wean: during the illness, the resistance is weak and the digestive function is poor. Weaning will definitely affect the baby's health.

4. Don't be separated from your baby violently, and don't apply spicy chicken or potions on your nipples. Mother-infant isolation, nipple smearing with spicy chicken, liquid medicine, etc. It will cause great psychological harm to the baby, which is not conducive to the development of healthy psychology.

5. Spend more time with your baby. During weaning, mothers should pay special attention to and take care of the baby, spend more time with the baby and calm the baby's anxiety. It is forbidden to hide out for quick weaning and give the baby to others for feeding.

6. The whole process of weaning should be decisive and cannot be delayed. In the process of weaning, the mother should not only let the baby adapt to the changes in diet, but also be decisive and resolute. She should not make up her mind because the baby cries for a while, thus delaying the weaning time. Don't break it suddenly, let him eat it for a few days and then break it suddenly, which will repeatedly bring bad emotional stimulation to the baby.

Finally:

I hope that all baby mothers can wean their babies easily and smoothly without the experience of "baby crying and mother hurting".