Believe in your own thinking and be firm in your choice.

There is a saying that "people's life is made up of choices", but the direction we choose is guided and decided by our thinking. And what we have to do is to trust our own thinking, because only in this way can we strengthen our choice.

I used to play chess with my friends, but I always lost more and won less. My friend said to me, "I have never understood your moves. I don't know why you want to go like this." It feels like walking around. " I don't deny that my moves are disorganized, but I know myself very well. Although I didn't arrange every move from the overall situation, every step I took was considered by myself, and my thoughts were in it. Because of the overall situation, it is chaotic. But I really enjoy this process, and every step can lead to new thinking. This method is also very easy to inadvertently destroy other people's chess moves.

My friend likes reading books, reading chess books and looking for rules. I don't deny that this is a good method, but I won't do it. I think chess is like life, and every step may be different. We should learn to improvise with our own thinking, instead of following the script.

In the first year of high school, the teacher taught us an idiom-poetry fails to convey its meaning, which means: "There is no accessible or unchangeable explanation for the Book of Songs, and people in different times have differences."

I took this explanation to another level. I interpret it as: there is no fixed explanation for anything, and different people have different opinions.

It's like when I was in the third year of high school, I discussed a poem called "Mountain Village" with my teacher. This poem is as follows:

Among the green trees in the mountains, the low walls are half exposed to pomegranate red.

No one came to bleak gate lane, and three or two grandchildren followed the white-haired man.

Thousands of bamboo shoots are full of clouds, and the west wind blows rain and clears up.

I went down the mountain and sang all the way before I finished writing the poem.

At that time, we were discussing the writing emotion that the author of this poem wanted to express. Because this poem was written by a poet in the Southern Song Dynasty, coupled with the sad scene of "few people" in couplets, combined with the author's meditation, I come to the conclusion that this poem was written in a sad background. The teacher's answer is completely contrary to mine. She insists that the couplet is about the happiness of the village name, and the author's tone is singing, which should be "Syaraku's feelings in the happy scene". The teacher's answer is the same as the standard answer. It is not excluded that the teacher was misled by the standard answer. In the end, none of us can convince anyone.

When I came back from school that day, I went online to find the standard answer, and the answer was still the same as the teacher's. When I doubt myself, I look for the background experience of the poet. Finally, I came to the conclusion that my explanation is absolutely feasible. The next day, when I was going to continue the discussion with the teacher, I suddenly laughed, because I couldn't deny the teacher's answer. So, "poetic" appeared in my mind again.

Why should I focus on this issue? Because besides showing my Chinese knowledge and pretending, the most important thing is that this incident once again tells me a way of thinking. What you say is not necessarily right, and what you say is not necessarily wrong. The key is to let us learn to think independently, even if it is wrong, as long as it is our own conclusion, it is valuable. This is the importance of thinking, which can be different from ordinary people, but it must not be parrot-learned.

Second, talk about choice! I think I made the most choices before and after I went to college, and every step was crucial. I made my own choices.

For example, I didn't do well in the college entrance examination at that time, so I chose to go to college or enter the society. A seemingly simple choice is nothing more than a choice, but it needs a lot of consideration for me. If I go to college, where will I get the financial conditions? With so many debts at home, it is definitely impossible for me to study. How to solve my living expenses and tuition? What should the university study? What kind of goals should be set? What should I do after graduation? My parents are old. How long can they last? Wait, it's all problems that need to be solved in order to go to college. But what if I don't go to college? what can I do? What would I do? I don't have the money to do business, what's more, do I really want to open a shop all my life? Wait, these also need to be considered.

At that time, my father said to me, "You are no longer young. You like doing business and learn quickly. Why go to college instead of learning to do business? " My friend said to me, "Since you want to engage in business in the future, why do you want to go to college?" ? Just learn from your relatives. With such a good condition, I can open a shop with my brother and do it together in the future. "

I can't get any support from these questions or persuasion. I want to give up college study, but I think there will always be a way.

In the end, I chose to go to college. My thinking was, "I want to learn real business skills. If I really only learn from my relatives, then I can only reach his height in my life. I want a higher height, at least I am still young. " Tuition can be loaned, and living expenses can be part-time. "

I can say that this choice is very important, because I think the choice is right, and maybe my life will go in different directions because of this choice. Because of this choice, I met very good university teachers and very good seniors, from whom I can learn really useful knowledge. Therefore, I met many classmates and roommates. These will be a very important part of life.

After going to college, I have to face more choices, and each choice brings great pressure, and the impact and consequences are unimaginable. But I will stick to my choice as always, because every choice is the result of my own thinking, and I believe in my own thinking.

There is a saying that "the road you choose should be on your knees", and what I want to say is that the road of life may be really bumpy, but kneeling is just a walking posture, and standing is the attitude we should take. No matter how difficult the road is, we should go on with pride, for nothing but to prove that our choice is valuable and meaningful.