Tell me why you miss Dink.

Tell me why you miss Dink. The most important reason is that I don't want to have children after two failed pregnancies. Besides, I also feel great economic pressure. It takes a lot of energy and cost to train a child if you buy a house and a car with a loan. It is better to train this child in his lifetime. Enjoy your life. That's what I thought.

Recently, a girl told me that my family background has something to do with my choice of Dink. The girl also said that if she hadn't met her husband, she might not even get married. The so-called Dink family, strictly speaking, both husband and wife have fertility, but subjectively choose not to have children. Later, couples who were infertile due to physical and other objective reasons were also included.

In fact, in reality. The girl mentioned in the topic is related to the family background and the choice of Dink. This kind of situation is still rare. But not getting married is very common. And my situation is a little special. My husband and I love each other and want to have our own baby from the beginning of our marriage. Because of two consecutive pregnancy failures, she miscarried halfway and was unable to have children. I discussed with my husband that I don't want to have any more children. The two of them, just join the Dink family. My husband disagreed with me at first. Use our loan to buy a car and a house. My husband gradually changed his mind. I think my proposal is still very good. But my parents-in-law and I don't quite agree. And urged us to go to the hospital for examination many times. Find out where there is a good Chinese doctor who is suitable for us, and want us to have a baby of our own with Chinese medicine therapy.

My husband changed his shift, changed his mind, and asked his parents. The pressure of mortgage and car loan is so great, so take out your coffin money and pay off all these loans for me. At this time, my parents-in-law will be particularly embarrassed to say, "When you get married, all the money at home will be spent. Now, where did you get the money to pay back your car loan? Dream on, don't forget to have children. What if I can't move when I am old? " You'll regret it too late. "

In fact, like our town, there are several pairs of dinks. It should be said that people have accepted this concept, but they will still talk behind their backs in peacetime. After all, for many people. Having children is a complete family, but two people live freely without the fetters of children. Two people, two people, go wherever you want. Still very free and easy. Her husband's good friend Hong Jian, his wife is very avant-garde. They could have had a baby, but his wife told Hong Jian before they got married. After marriage, don't have children. I feel that my body may change after giving birth to the baby, and I also feel that no one can help take care of the baby (Hong Jian's parents died early) and I don't want to have children. That's a very happy and chic thing.

My husband and I often get together with Hong Jian and his wife. We travel together, play together, and feel that life is very chic. Look at many people around us. For the sake of children, we are always in a hurry: vaccinating, drinking milk powder, choosing a good kindergarten, choosing a good school district, having poor grades and having a tutor, breaking our hearts for the college entrance examination. ...

In short, parents with children have been worried about their children all their lives. I'm thinking, life is so short, why not enjoy it by yourself and grasp the chic of high live now. Is the meaning of living for children? Can't you live for yourself? Little friends, do you agree with me? If you have different opinions, you can comment in the comments section below. Look forward to your participation.