Boys who are nearly forty years old are still pursuing empty perfectionism emotionally and refuse to be bound by marriage and love. Will it change in the future?

Rhapsody in July may be despised for dating when you are old. He believes that men of this age should have married and established their families long ago and should not be entangled with young girls. Then Bian Xiao will talk about what men of this age think today!

40-year-old man's psychology of falling in love

Make up for the lack of love and want to try the taste of love. Before the age of 30, men are generally busy making contributions, seeking fame and concentrating on their studies. I always feel that I have no achievements, dare not pursue love, and dare not let women accompany me to suffer. This is a strong sense of responsibility.

But after graduation, I couldn't resist the impulse of my family to get married. The man got married and the woman got married. Parents at home are eager to have grandchildren, and men feel that they are too old to get married, which is really unfilial. So with the help of relatives and friends, they frequently made blind dates. It is difficult to have love on blind date. If you look right, you can talk about marriage.

After several years of marriage, once the novelty of married life has passed, I feel as if I have never experienced love, or there is no love. Therefore, with the growth of age, a man's heart will sprout. It suddenly occurred to me that I still have a lot to do in my life. I want to make up for the lack of love and try the taste of love. They just have the idea of falling in love.

The benefits of dating a 40-year-old man

Forty-year-olds know how to enjoy life, not to compete in the turbid flow of life. On the other hand, the 20-year-old has not found his place in society, while the 30-year-old clings to a place for fear that a big wave will wash him downstream. Forty-year-old people have a certain social status, and they no longer fight for the shallow problem of survival. Only those who don't struggle can be elegant. I think everyone wants to get along with someone with a gesture.

Men and women are the most romantic around the age of 40, because marriage is dull, the spirit does not accept old age, and there are many private spaces, which are often easy to cheat.

At this time, men, after experiencing all kinds of setbacks in life, have matured their emotions and have a rich way of looking at people. In the face of strange women, they will always show different behaviors and manners, be polite, always show concern for the opposite sex in small details, and always be liked by women.

But both men and women, about 40 years old, must stick to themselves, especially married men should think about their families, and can't have such thoughts of destroying their families. Marriage is a matter for two people. Only when two people guard it together can the family be happy.