What kind of person is he who likes to add "thank you" after everything he says?

Thank you, thank you Xiao Wang, thank you Xiao Zhang, thank you Mr. Xu, thank you Teacher Li, etc. The best way to say it is to remember to add the title after the word "thank you". In business etiquette, it is best to add a bow, which not only appears polite, sincere, but also shows respect for others.

As for saying "thank you" directly, although it is polite, it is not sincere enough. It is always a bit like a catchphrase or idiom, but it is better to say it than not to say it.

People who often say "thank you" are generally more educated and people who know how to be grateful. Of course, whether they are sincere or not is another matter.

Especially when you get help from others, remember to say "Thank you" or "Thank you so-and-so". It is an expression of recognition, gratitude and respect for others. Say thank you, and the other person must be very pleased and think that it is worthwhile to help you, even if it is very tiring.

Don’t say thank you just because you are a very good or familiar friend. In fact, no one has the obligation to help you. Helping you is just a favor and giving you face. Not helping you is also reason.

In short, whether at home, in the company, or on other occasions, you should say "Thank you" and "Thank you so-and-so" more often. If you persist for a while, you will find that your popularity has improved and your work has improved. And life is getting smoother and smoother!

Around 2000, my parents and a few friends traveled to Beihai. After going there, they fell in love with it, and then they bought houses in Beihai one after another, claiming that they would move to Beihai after retirement.

Almost twenty years have passed. The old people really fulfilled their promise and lived like migratory birds every year, returning to the north to escape the summer heat and going to the North Sea to spend the winter. In these years, the elderly do not even think about reuniting with their children; they do not consider that there is a large group of relatives and friends in their hometown.

I have been to Beihai many times. The natural scenery is beyond words. But why the elderly choose to retire here has always been an unsolvable doubt in my mind. After all, from the climate, altitude, and air content, Considering aspects such as oxygen content, there are many options worth choosing. It wasn't until one year that a small incident suddenly dawned on me.

It should be 2014. I rushed to Beihai before the Spring Festival that year, wanting to celebrate the New Year with my parents. During those days, I would push my bicycle to a market near the community where my parents lived to buy daily vegetables, fish and meat. One day, I stopped in front of a small stall at the entrance of the market and watched an old man carefully take out a large bag of purple amaranth from the bag, and then clean and arrange them neatly, almost leaf by leaf. . The old man was very short, and his hands and face had dense, deep wrinkles carved by time. She was hunched over, sitting on a small bench whose wood color could no longer be distinguished, calm and indifferent.

I couldn't help but stop the car, walked up, squatted in front of her, and said to her, "Weigh yourself." She said to me in very non-standard Mandarin, "Young man, how many people are eating? This dish needs to be fresh. If you buy too much, you won't be able to eat it. If you eat it next time, it won't taste good." I answered her, "Three people." Then, for some reason, she added "Me and my parents." She smiled and said, "That's too much. One pound is enough. It's best to buy one meal." Carefully select the best vegetable leaves from the well-prepared vegetables and put them into a red translucent thin plastic bag. She didn't use an electronic scale, she still used an old-fashioned scale. After weighing a pound, she picked up a few purple amaranth leaves, put them in the bag, and handed them to me. I quickly asked her, "How much?" "Two yuan and two cents per pound." She said to me with a smile. I picked out three one-yuan notes from my pocket and handed them to her. She took them and said "thank you" to me sincerely and naturally. After finishing speaking, he gave me a five-cent note and a three-cent note from a bag filled with thick change. I wanted to say there was no need to look for it, but I never opened my mouth. I suddenly felt that thank you was like a enlightenment given to me by a wise man. I seemed to understand a lot, but I couldn't figure out what I understood for a while.

In the next few days, I began to pay attention to the vendors in the market. Most local vendors always say "thank you" to customers after paying. They are all sincere and sincere, with smiles on their faces.

I suddenly understood that I have met too many people who say "thank you" in these years. Those "thank you" are very polite, polite and nice. But I only heard these two words, nothing more. And here, I heard what seemed to be a heartfelt thank you to the guests for taking care of their business; it seemed to be their simple expression of recognition for their hard work; it seemed to be peace and kindness from a long time ago; it seemed to be rooted in them A small ritual feeling deep in the soul that is grateful to the sea; it seems to express the purity and tranquility in their hearts.

I suddenly understood that the rules of respect are called etiquette, but sincere and sincere respect is the most precious tolerance, understanding and trust between people.

This is the reason why parents choose Beihai. Here they feel the purity, truth and kindness that perhaps generations of souls have been craving.

I am very surprised to see this question, because I feel deeply about it in my daily life! Express your own opinions and experiences, I hope it will be helpful to everyone.

Thank you, there are two ways of using it here. The first is to say thank you after someone does you a favor. For example, my daughter is just two years old. Every time I help her get something or open something, she will say "Thank you, Dad" before taking the thing. This makes me feel very happy because I feel that my daughter is special. Being polite, my daughter respects what I do for her; secondly, when I ask others for help, I add thank you after the request. For example: Teacher Yang, can you help me get an apple to eat? Thanks! In this way, my wife can happily help me get things. But in other words, Teacher Yang, go get me an apple! At this time, my wife will often say why don’t you get it yourself! For another example, I am currently studying in an institution. Every day, a teacher at work will sign in for us. After each sign-in, I will say "thank you". At this time, the teacher will raise his head, smile and tell me you're welcome! I think this is respect and recognition of other people's work, and others will not think you are pretending or pretending. On the contrary, we lack this sense of "thank you" ritual.

Say thank you to others often, and they will respond with kindness and smiles to you. In this world that is fragmented by mobile terminal modules, we desperately need words like "thank you" to break the fragmentation of the human-machine relationship, return to our most primitive sincere feelings, and express our feelings by ourselves instead of relying on the coldness of mobile phones. machine to express thoughts!

I suggest that you try to say thank you to everyone in your life, family, friends, strangers ~ this will make your world more beautiful!

I am the person who always says thank you

In fact, when I was a child, I thought it was polite. My family education told me to do this, but now I have developed a kind of politeness. Get used to it.

Although it does not feel like the heartfelt gratitude I used to, it is more like a habit of speaking, but I don’t think this is hypocritical or a hypocrite.

Let alone others, our parents are used to ending their conversations with "thank you". Although it makes people feel a little less impersonal, it is actually not the case. Parents will still help when they should help.

Let me show you a screenshot of me and my parents. It also contains the words my sister sent to my mother. In the past, I basically talked to my parents in the same way: you, thank you, and you are welcome. .

I have changed a lot in the past few years, or I have changed a little intentionally, but when it comes to saying thank you and to people who are older than me, I will still use you naturally, thank you.

I have become very degenerate. I have read the letter home written by my father to my grandfather. It is very neat. It starts with "Hello, dear father".

Although many people may think that my family's way of speaking is polite, but in fact we really respect each other.

As for why I changed a bit, you can see that I no longer reply rudely to my parents’ thank you. This was impossible for me before. It’s not because I think this habit is hypocritical, but because I think this habit is hypocritical. I am afraid that people around me will think that I am a hypocritical person, an impersonal person, and that I will be judged as a hypocritical person.

You are really pitiful for hypocritical people who say thank you, and your family education is also quite pathetic.

When I go to a restaurant or buy something on the street, I always say thank you to the waiter. This is a kind of affirmation to others. Others will also say "no thank you" back to you, and then give each other a smile. What's wrong with that? A word of thank you can express your own quality and self-cultivation, as well as the family education atmosphere. To give my own example, every time I take a taxi and get off at my destination, I will say "Thank you, Master, for your hard work, Master". People will smile really happily instead of being polite. As a person, you have to be considerate of yourself. If you spend money, you will be the uncle, and you can give advice to others. My father taught me to be polite and kind to others since I was a child. My quality and self-cultivation cannot keep up with others, and I also call others hypocritical. How disgusting is it to say such a thing!

I saw this question yesterday and never got an answer. Today I was out and about, and I kept observing. What were I observing? I observed the comments around me saying thank you.

The scenes I saw today are as follows:

On the bus, I saw a grandmother with a baby, and she felt sincerely because someone else gave up her seat. Say thank you.

When I was exercising in the gym, I saw a fitness enthusiast who had a headache because he didn’t know how to use a certain equipment. At this time, a fitness instructor who happened to pass by helped teach this friend. I said thank you from the bottom of my heart.

For another example, I bought two delicious candied haws on the roadside today. As a thank you, I also said thank you from the bottom of my heart.

In fact, the pronunciation of the word "thank you" is very simple. You only need to open your mouth a little to say thank you, so that thank you is the simplest Chinese word for foreigners.

Whether at home or outside, I believe that 99% of people who say thank you must come from the heart. After all, kindness or justice in this world must account for more than darkness and ugliness. many.

I believe that people who are used to saying thank you must be kind people, because no one in this world "should" do anything for you, but those who choose to take the initiative to help others must have a heart full of gratitude. They have love for the world, and they uphold the belief that altruism is self-interest. Of course, this is the world I see with my eyes. Of course, it is inevitable that 1% of people do have such "hypocrisy" behavior.

My boyfriend is a person who likes to say thank you. He is not pretentious. He has always been very polite. This is a kind of cultivation and a habit, which also makes him good in life. It is easy to get help from many people. A few days ago, when he got off work, his car was locked with the key in it. He asked the security uncle to help find someone to unlock the door. The security uncle knew me and liked him as a polite young man, because he would greet the security uncle every time when he went to and from work. Every time the security uncle opened the door, he would say thank you. We got to know each other very well, so the security uncle helped me pass the ticket and unlocked the car in a few seconds without saying a word. The security uncle said that ordinary people would not do this for fear of him. If other people's opinions affect your work, you will only call a professional locksmith to unlock it for others. So be grateful to everyone around you. Others have flesh and blood and need to live. Paying for you is not something that should be taken for granted. Saying thank you will not lose a piece of flesh on you, but will bring you good luck

< p>First of all, the first category should be people with tutors and good education

My grandmother was a primary school teacher before liberation. She taught all the children in the family to be polite, in addition to being respectful when dealing with others. People, saying "thank you", "please"... are all basic. People develop habits when they are young, and when they grow up, they will keep these words on their lips, and they will say them unconsciously. At the same time, I still remember that I had an enlightenment teacher when I was a child. Because I went to study in the West, after I came back, I asked the children to use Western etiquette in daily life, training sitting and standing postures, dining etiquette, drinking coffee, listening to symphonies... Yes Uncivilized behavior should be criticized gently. If a child is ignorant and is criticized by a very elegant person, he will feel embarrassed and will gradually become restrained.

Especially when dealing with people whose status is lower than yours but who serve you, you must say thank you. This shows that everyone is equal and respects their labor, as well as respecting yourself.

But I developed a habit when I was young. When I grow up, I only say thank you mechanically. I may not really understand the meaning of "thank you".

For the West, polite language is part of etiquette. People are equal, and language expressions must reflect equality. In the Western communication system, there are senders and receivers of information. One person gives help to another person, and the person who receives the help says thank you, which is a response. Information exchange is the foundation of a civilized society. If you do not respond to information, there will be problems in communication.

For the East, because of the accumulation of traditional culture, the connotation of "ritual" is very rich. We often say that benevolence, wisdom, etiquette, righteousness, and trust are all based on human feelings. Before modern society, Chinese society was more about human feelings than laws, and etiquette was human feelings. This kind of human gift in China is more complicated.

A person who is being helped owes a favor. Saying thank you is an expression of gratitude. For small things, after expressing gratitude, the favor is returned, so many people think that saying thank you Just reducing the burden on favors is actually very low in emotional intelligence.

Relationships arise between people because of communication, and helping each other is also a kind of communication. Through helping and owing each other, it is equivalent to establishing a relationship for two strangers who have no relationship. For those who have a relationship, it is equivalent to adding some accumulation of things to the existing relationship. In other words, whether it is to say thank you or to say something else, this word is not equivalent to "goodbye", it is not to terminate the relationship, but to deepen the "emotion" between people. Based on this theory, people with high emotional intelligence will do this-

1. For some trivial things, you don’t have to say thank you, you can say something else that others want to hear. For example, if you meet a lady in the elevator and press the wait button for you, you can say something like - Hey, your child is so cute; Hey, where did you buy your tomatoes? They are so fresh; Hey, your hair is done really well.

2. For some larger help, it is usually between people who are familiar with each other. You can make an appointment, such as drinking tea, eating, playing cards, etc. The purpose of the appointment is to deepen the relationship. .

3. For great help between acquaintances, the best way to deal with it is to say less and do more. Helping others when you are able is the best "thank you" and the most decent reply.

Therefore, people who often say thank you may also be introverts. In their subconscious, this kind of "thank you" is a kind of aloofness, a kind of closure, a kind of rejection, and a kind of eagerness to terminate the conversation. demands.

In a society, saying thank you more is polite and polite, and communicating more than thank you is human kindness and warmth.

To sum up, those who say thank you too much to acquaintances have low emotional intelligence, or are at least lazy, and do not want to interact in depth to maintain relationships, while those who say thank you to strangers, especially workers, are self-conscious and polite.

Thank you!

During the years when I was studying and living abroad, the thing I said the most every day was thank you. When the teacher finishes class, he will say thank you to the students. When the landlord pays the rent, the landlord will say thank you. When the bar is closed, the boss will say thank you to the employees. When I was infected by others, I also developed this habit subconsciously. After returning to China, some people always said that I was too polite. Once I went to have my shoes shined, and after paying, I habitually said: Thank you. The big brother with oily hands rubbed his hands with a red face and said, I thank you for taking care of my business. And every time the little brother delivers water to my house, I have to say thank you, please, he always says I am polite. Everyone is born equal, and no one should do anything to anyone. Even though you paid money and he provided services to you, he sincerely felt that he was causing trouble to others, and he felt guilty in his heart, so he naturally said thank you. A real incident witnessed by a classmate in Tokyo, Japan. During the morning rush hour, two cars collided with each other on the roadway, and the turn signal was shattered on the ground. The first thing the two car owners did when they got out of the car was to bow to each other, look at the car, and exchange photos. After receiving the business card, it seemed that the responsible party took out a small broom and dustpan from the back of the car and quickly swept away the debris on the ground. The two parties bowed to each other again and quickly drove away. The classmates couldn't hear what they exchanged. The cars next to them drove around in an orderly manner, with no horns or complaints. Everything seemed so calm and normal, but it left a deep shock in the hearts of the classmates.

Maybe we have learned to respect and consider each other. There are many thank yous around me constantly, which is really comfortable.

No? Think about it, in the more than 30,000 days that people live in this world, how many times can they meet, how many times can they pass by each other, how many times can they work together and live in the same room? I don’t remember which celebrity said: I may not be a person with excellent character, but I try to be a person who makes people feel comfortable. And in our lives, there is so much violence. Don't say thank you, we often use swear words, and even punches and kicks. What affects people's souls? Life has given you endless pressure, and you have put heavy shackles on yourself. If you are not good, you must use your best to throw it to others to let yourself vent. The temperature of this society is already low enough. Wouldn't it be better to be warmer? We can't be a comfortable person, but we can at least be a warm person. There are cracks in everything, but that's where the sunlight gets in.

These times are different. Maybe you are not a person who likes to say thank you, but this is still very common among the younger generation.

I grew up in the South when I was a child. To be honest, the South is more casual in dealing with people and doesn’t pay much attention to it. Maybe it's our area.

The 1980s and 1990s were the era of barbaric growth.

Due to family reasons, I have to transfer to the north to study. I know what they call you. I know, thank you.

At the beginning, I was still embarrassed. Fortunately, the teacher in the class is very good. He often teaches me that I must say thank you for everything and address the teacher first when speaking.

In the past, my family, to be honest, didn’t really teach me much. Even though I grew up on a college campus, when it comes to tutoring, the South is generally worse.

Later, when I returned to the south, a classmate came to my home to inform me of something. Because I have developed a living habit there. I remember that after they came to inform me, I said, thank you, walk slowly, goodbye, etc.

At that time, the classmates’ eyes widened and their mouths opened wide. The two of them were actually surprised.

One of them said to another classmate, he would actually say thank you to me?

In fact, in the past, maybe in our era, it was difficult for peers to listen to each other. Let’s get to this point.

I also laughed at that time.

Decades later, thank you has become a very common greeting.

To anyone you may have troubled or served you with, thank you is easy and pleasant to say.

Respect everyone, thank you!