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An American woman writer once said that the highest level of communication is to listen quietly. In my opinion, listening is not only a respect for others, but also a manifestation of tolerance, humility, erudition and wisdom.

Everyone's cognition is limited, and no one can guarantee to know more than others. Therefore, if you learn to listen, you can observe the world with the third eye-including introspection. As the saying goes, "the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear." The defects in our character are often difficult to see clearly only by self-understanding. Stones from other mountains can attack jade; Other people's eyes can be very kind to me. Confucius said: "In a threesome, there must be a teacher. Choose good and follow it, but change it if it is not good. " Listening is the only way to examine yourself and improve yourself.

At a meeting, Microsoft President Bill Gates was severely criticized, and a technician pointed out that the company was behind in developing web browsers. Gates hesitated a little, resolutely blamed himself, and sincerely apologized to the participants, which also announced the change of "Microsoft" business direction. Gates later said about this matter: "I don't want to waste time on the issue of face." Meaningless. Privilege corrupts people, but I want to keep the momentum forward. " From the teenager to the richest man in the world, such success did not plug Gates' ears. Learning to listen is undoubtedly an important reason for his success.

Real winners are good at listening, and their modesty comes from a high degree of self-confidence. And those who are pretentious, narrow-minded and closed-minded, their conceit is actually the coat of ignorance, and ignorance will be even more ignorant because of occlusion; Self-confidence is the fruit of wisdom, and wisdom will become smarter because of listening.

Yes, listening has opened up a new way for our judgment, but listening can never replace our own analysis and judgment. We should not only learn to "listen", but also have enough ability to "choose". Senac said that it is the same mistake to doubt everyone and believe everyone. Only when our judgment is based on thorough thinking and analysis can we have reason to believe it. Only in this way can our listening be valuable and we can really learn to listen.

If you don't listen and go your own way, you will go your own way; Just listening and stepping on someone else's road is a toddler in Handan! Going it alone is stupid, and so is learning to walk in Handan. Thinking without listening is dull, and listening without thinking is chaotic! We must learn to listen, water our hearts with the alloy of listening and self-confidence, and find an accurate and reasonable degree of sight for our spiritual ruler.

Learn to listen. If you learn to listen, you will learn to understand and have a wise attitude towards life, and you will take a solid and confident step in life.