My wife always finds fault with me. What should I do?

When we get married, we all know that there is a strange phenomenon, that is, we are very tolerant of other friends or ordinary colleagues and classmates. But we always find fault with our husbands. If we do something unsatisfactory, we will be furious, even if it is a small matter, we will be very concerned about each other's poor performance. Although we know this situation is irrational, how can we change it?

First, it may be easier to maintain the balance between two people by treating their partners as ordinary friends. Some people get along with their partners because they are too close, so they will never treat each other as outsiders. If they have dissatisfaction, they will vent it at the first time, because they know in their hearts that even if they have a bad temper, the other party will tolerate it, and they will not argue with themselves or hold grudges after the incident. In fact, this idea is not correct. You must know it hurts.

Second, in the face of his wife's criticism of himself, he can also put forward different opinions to face his wife's criticism, and he should also express his thoughts. For example, if he does something against his wife's wishes, then he can tell her the original intention of doing so, and let her know that even if he doesn't do well, it is his own efforts, in order to give his wife a better experience and save her more energy and thoughts, and it is only his own efforts. I worked hard, but I couldn't win the favor of the other party. I also let the other party know my inner grievances and let my wife start to consider her feelings after doing things by herself.

Third, the wife is very critical of herself, so she should reflect on whether she didn't do anything. In fact, husband and wife should know each other very well, but some boys are very nervous. They don't know what their wives really want them to do, but they just do it by their own ideas. Finally, it took a lot of effort to please them. Anyway, my wife began to be picky again, causing her own complaints. In the end, it makes the relationship more rigid, so they should be suitable.