A broken man has his own love, and a rotten pot has its own rotten cover; Only a man of noble character can bear everything!

"People who have tens of millions of property in the world must be people who deserve tens of millions of property; People who have millions of property must also be people who deserve millions of property; People who starve to death must starve to death. " -"Four Disciplines"

For example, a child can only digest two bowls of rice at most, so you should give him three or four bowls. What will happen to him?

He will have stomachache, vomiting and even stomach damage.

That's what the old adage "virtuous" means.

The Yungu Zen Master mentioned in "Leaving under the temptation" also said: God treats everything fairly, and people's fate is good or bad, which cannot be separated from people's hearts.

The author, Mr. Yuan Lefan, met Jackson Yungu at the low point of his life. Jackson Yungu took out a "book of merits and demerits" and gave it to Yuan Lefan, asking him to record his good deeds and evil deeds every day.

Yuan Lefan thinks according to what is recorded in the merit book every day. If he finds that he has done something "bad", he will immediately reflect and correct it. If he finds that he has not done enough good deeds, he will do more the next day. When he completed the 65,438+03,000 good deeds he vowed to do, his fate was completely changed.

What is the "bad thing" mentioned above?

It not only refers to the bad things done in practical actions, but also includes: losing your temper, speaking ill, swearing, jealousy, complaining, complaining, getting angry, cursing and so on.

What does it mean to do good?

The same is true of doing good deeds, including sincere praise, encouraging others, comforting others, blessing, giving people steps, even a reassuring look and so on.

There are a "good guy" and a "bad guy" in my hometown. Let's talk about this "bad guy" first.

His nickname is "Niu Bao". As the name implies, he is a grumpy person, but he is not a heinous person. He often quarrels with people in the village shop. Even an 80-year-old man has to scold a dog with blood dripping on his head, which is not good for his wife and often beats and curses.

Because of his bad temper, he ran into a wall when looking for a job. Once he finally got a job, he offended his clients by being too outspoken. After being said a few words by the boss, his temper came back and he was dismissed within two days.

It has been like this for more than ten years. He never reflects and never changes. Because of his stubbornness, no one in the family felt sorry for him.

If he can reflect on himself as often as Mr. Yuan Lefan and change his bad temper, even if he can't make a lot of money, he can at least find a job to improve his life!

Let's talk about this "good guy" again.

Good people are also poor boys, and they have no money to go to school after graduating from high school. However, he is kind and caring. A few years ago, he saw that many elderly people living alone in the village had a hard life, so he tried his best to find a dozen like-minded villagers and set up a caring team. Team members have money to pay, but no money to contribute.

Over the past few years, his team has brought warmth to the left-behind children in the village, care to the lonely elderly, hope to the needy people and become good people in the village.

His behavior has attracted more and more attention, and many wealthy businessmen have joined the caring team. A successful businessman admired him very much and later cooperated with him in business. Now there are more and more people in his caring team, his charity is getting bigger and bigger, benefiting the people of the city, and his life is getting richer and richer!

Confucius said: I save three times a day. Always reflect on what you have done wrong, have you said anything that hurts others, correct your mistakes every day, and standardize your words and deeds.

Everyone will make mistakes, no matter how big or small, we should find our own mistakes in time, correct our shortcomings in time, and be tolerant, kind and caring to others in life and work.

As the saying goes, "rope saws wood and drops stones." Success is not achieved overnight, but requires perseverance. Therefore, we should persistently speak well, do good deeds and be good people.

Confucianism believes that "virtue" includes loyalty, filial piety, benevolence, righteousness, softness, respect and modesty. And our wealth, status and everything, the ancients called it: things.

Virtue can carry everything.

On the contrary, our virtue is not worthy of our blessing, which is called: virtue is not worthy.

Do good deeds silently, accumulate virtue, practice diligently and wait with peace of mind.

# New Author Support Scheme Phase II #

Welcome to pay attention to @ 両両両両両両両両両両両両両両両両両両両𰵁𰵁𰵁𰵁2000