Should stay-at-home mothers have children after divorce?

The main question is whether stay-at-home mothers should have children after divorce. 》

Let me talk about my personal opinion. In my opinion, all mothers in the world are great. Mother and child are heart to heart, which is proved by countless facts. Neighbor, divorced, with a three-year-old daughter, working to support the children, reluctant to give the man support. This fact proves that mother is selfless and great. But some people don't want to have children, a few, and most of them don't want to have children.

The subject asked? Should I have children? My answer: under normal circumstances, mothers are reluctant to part with their children. Some mothers are willing to give up their children.

Do you want children? My answer is that I should have children. The reason is that the child is a piece of meat on the mother. Mothers who don't want children don't deserve to be mothers. Mothers support their children and children support their parents, which is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. My answer: I should have children!

My old fans may have read what I wrote about being kicked by Qing Wu. At that time, I wanted a divorce, too, but my dad wouldn't let me take care of the children, and then the divorce ended.

Our instrument bureau was once brilliant, and then it basically closed down. Before the bankruptcy, our workers were laid off by turns, and there was nothing to do at home, so it was easy to have conflicts between husband and wife. Once I was kicked out of Qing Wu's leg, which is a true story. Later, I also thought about divorce. I will definitely go back to my parents' home then. Father said divorce was ok, but I was not allowed to have children. For me, children are my life. How can I give up my children and choose divorce? My dad may really be reluctant to leave me alone. What kind of quality of life would it be without a good job and a child? He also knows that I won't give up my children and choose divorce. Therefore, the divorce will go away.

So stay-at-home mom wants a divorce, and if mom

Your family doesn't support you. You really have to think twice about taking care of your children after divorce.

As the saying goes, your question is really difficult to answer.

From a legal point of view, the following factors are mainly considered for children.

1, which is beneficial to children's growth.

On the one hand, it is good for children, that is, who cares about their growth; On the other hand, it is to support the children's financial strength (this is not very disparity, it can be ignored, because the man will pay the living expenses, but if you are a full-time mother, it is not good for you. When you go to work, you will have less time to take care of your children. Too little income will affect your child's development.

2. Children's choice.

After a child has a certain judgment, who he wants to live with is also a key factor to consider.

So whether you want to have children depends on whether the other person will let go.

Let's talk about the impact of divorce on you with children.

It takes a lot of courage if you live alone with your children.

Although both husband and wife have to bear the children's living expenses, it is more troublesome to ask for this money after divorce, and it is very laborious to encounter it unconsciously.

Can you support your child's future by yourself?

If you get married after having children, girls have an advantage over boys.

But all kinds of unpredictable factors should also be considered.

It's not that you can't meet good people, but it's relatively difficult.

If you can make do, you might as well be single unless you really don't have the ability to live independently. Find a meal ticket.

Let's talk about divorce again.

If there are no children, divorce is uncomfortable and separation is no problem.

If both sides have good conditions and will not delay the children, I also support separation if it is not suitable.

If I am already struggling, divorce will make my children worse, and I will feel a little selfish.

People must bear their own responsibilities.

You bring your children into this world without a clear understanding of life and thinking about the future, so you have to pay a huge price for your mistakes.

This price is what you have to bear now, and you can't escape.

Leaving children to find their own lives is an escape and irresponsible.

If you really give up the man, and the child is almost 7 years old, you can also go out to work by yourself, which is the case for husband and wife. You can have a certain economic foundation, and most people will think that you are great with your children.

You don't have the financial foundation to take care of the children. I hope you won't agree with them. You need not only courage, but also perseverance.

You don't have the financial basis to keep your children. It seems that many people will think that you are wrong and harmful to children.

Therefore, if you are not satisfied with the status quo, you should change yourself first, instead of considering divorce first.

In fact, you will regret whether you get married or not.

The cat in the alley is free, but it has no home.

The dog in the pen has a home and has to bow his head all his life.

This multiple-choice question in life,

There will be regrets if you choose.

In fact, getting married is not terrible.

The worst thing is divorce,

What's really scary is,

I got married and found that I couldn't afford to leave.

Only in this escape attempt,

But you can't run away from marriage,

Spend a lifetime ...

This is the price adults have to pay.

One is the meat that fell off my body, and the other is the child I raised with a handful of shit and urine.

Second, I don't think a child with his father has a good future. Only following grandparents means losing the care of both father and mother. This is a very cruel thing.

Third, it may be because the career is more free and there is more time to manage the children.

Fourth, weigh the pros and cons, even if the father of the child does not give alimony, he is still able to raise the child. So I want it without hesitation.

Give up everything and leave home clean, I admit, just for the children to follow me. My brother once complained to me that I should not have children, but I don't regret it. At least many years later, I have done my duty to watch my children grow up and have no regrets about them.

First, can your economic work support your children and you? I know a mother who can't find much money at work or send her children to kindergarten.

Second, do you have enough energy to manage your child's life, study and emotions? Don't think about your parents doing this for you. Parents have no responsibility and obligation to help you do it, and they can't replace you. Only when children are excellent can there be hope for the future.

Third, if you remarry, can you protect your child from harm? Some second marriages, which the man couldn't accept, were given to the father of the child, and the child suffered a second abandonment.

Being a full-time mother means no job, no income, and it is difficult to survive on your own. Only when you are sure that you can support yourself and your children can you decide whether to have children.

Should children be raised, but can they be raised? We should think from the educational perspective of children's growth.

If economic conditions permit, we can strive for the custody of children ... How to rationally face the benefits brought to children's growth? You have left the workplace full-time in recent years, and now you have to adapt to coming back to find a job …

Personally, I don't think there is anything you should or shouldn't want. Whether to have children or not depends on your heart. See if you can give up the baby when you leave. As the saying goes, if there is a stepmother, there is a stepmother. When the father remarries, you can't worry about the children's life. If you are determined to be separated from your children, don't think about anything else. Get the custody of the child first and then talk about the rest. There are always solutions to these problems, and I believe that the methods are always more difficult than the difficulties.

I think most mothers are great, but there are also a few mothers who, like hens, give birth to children like laying eggs, and lose one nest after another!

Should divorced women have custody of their children? In fact, maternal love is the greatest after divorce, and nothing can replace the cure brought by children. Maybe after the divorce, the woman has no economic income, no job and no house. But these difficulties. Are short-lived. I believe that as long as you work hard, material difficulties. Sooner or later, I will go out for a day. But only the growth of children, you are missing, then this period of time can never be made up.